I think my best friend likes me, what do i do?

Question

i'm g*y and my best friend is bi. she has admitted to liking me in the past, so far that she said she was in love with me. obviously this put a damper on our friendship. i could never be around her with my girlfriend cause she would get upset. and she would always treat me like her girlfriend and get mad at me for things only a psycho girlfriend would get mad over.

and then she told me she was over me. i kind of believed it for awhile but here we are back to the old behavior again.

i really don't know what to do. i don't flirt with her or lead her on in anyway so i don't know what else to do. i don't want to lose her as a friend but i can't take this **** much longer.

help would be much obliged!

Answer 1

well think about it! could you ever like her???? give her a chance!

Answer 2

Maybe help her find a new focus for her affections..?

Assuming (I know I shouldn't..) you've already told her in no uncertain terms you aren't interested in her in that way, you might have to otherwise put some distance between you for awhile until she really understands how much her behavior bothers you.

Good luck. :)

Answer 3

I know you dont' want to lose a friend, but if she's acting psycho , it is probably best to cut all ties. (see the movie fatal attraction).

Answer 4

shes not over u , talk to her about it