I think my best friend may be pregnant? she is 15? and she keeps just blowing me off about it. please help.?

Question

okay so my best friend told me the other day that she wanted to take a pregnancy test because she missed her period and she ended up not taking one. She thinks that its impossible that she is pregnant because he pulled out. but is it possible? what do i do? and also if she is pregnant i want you to know that i will be there for her. and also whenever i say anything about it she just blows me off. i think she may be pregnant but i really dont know. She is 15 years old she will be a sophomore this coming up year. please help.

Answer 1

I want you to know these bits of information, and pass them along to your friends so less teenagers can be confused about s*x.

1) THE PULL OUT METHOD DOES NOT WORK. There is something called pre-ejaculatory fluids. This is a clear liquid that comes out of the p***s during s*x, or masturbation, or whatever. There is a myth that it does not contain sperm. FALSE. If that fluid was released inside the v****a, yes, there IS a chance of pregnancy.

2) DO NOT HAVE s*x IF YOU ARE NOT WELL EDUCATED. The rhythm method, the pullout method, and having anal s*x are all ways people believe they can avoid pregnancy. WRONG. There is possibility for pregnancy in all of them. If a man ejaculates ANYWHERE near a woman's v****a, pregnancy CAN happen.

3) HAVING A MISSED PERIOD DOES NOT MEAN YOU'RE PREGNANT. Stressing about being pregnant can actually cause you to delay, or even MISS your period. So, relaxing, and not stressing yourself out will be much better in the long run.

4) ONE OF THE CONSEQUENCES OF s*x IS PREGNANCY. Not only that, but also STIs and STDs. People have unprotected s*x in order to get pregnant. What makes anyone believe unprotected s*x is smart (when they are not intending on having a child, of course) needs to go back to s*x ed. If you can not handle the responsibility of buying condoms, how the h**l are you supposed to handle the responsibility of buying diapers, baby food, and clothing for a child?

Your friend needs to take a pregnancy test. If not, she could be pregnant and end up killing the child. If she finds out she is pregnant, she must go to the doctor to do what she has to in order to keep this baby healthy. She has responsibility now, even if she isn't pregnant. If she turns out not to be, I hope this is a huge scare for her. Tell her to buy some condoms for $5, instead of $500 a month (or more!) for a baby.

If she won't do this, there isn't much you can do. I understand you want to be a good friend, but if she begins to get bigger, and bigger, and isn't sure why, she will definately know she is pregnant by that point. Good luck.

Answer 2

She's probably scared. Who would want to be pregnant at 15???

Answer 3

sigh.. you can still get pregnant if he "pulls out"

kids shouldnt be having s*x if they dont know these things...

Answer 4

just flat out tell her.

"Listen, the pull out method doesn't work as great as you think it does, thats how half the kids in the world came about. You still need to take that test before its too late!"

and if she still refuses, show her a website that says, there is not 100% effective birth control.

If she doesn't take that test and get the help she needs, then she could be in a world of h**l.

hope i helped and good luck.

Answer 5

Yes she could be pregnant. It may be that she doesnt have regular periods either...

If you truely think that she is pregnant maybe just say a simple statement such as "You know if you ever need anything or someone to talk to I'll be there for you" because then you aren't forcing the pregnancy issue on her and that way u also get ur sincerity across too.

Answer 6

havent you taken s*x ed?

one drop and you can get pregnant.

if you have s*x theres always a chance you can get pregnant.

if she is pregnant she has to tell someone other than

her friends, like a doctor, counsoler or another adult.

Answer 7

it is possible for a girl to get pregnant even if he pulls out early. i like your attitude, your a good friend