I think my boyfriend is cheating me me!?

Question

my boyfriend(we broke up before cuz he cheated on me and lied about it) we got back together, and he promised me that it wouldnt happen again.i looked at his pictures on myspace and there is this girl that is saying i love you and things like that. he has a picture of his arms(they are hot) and i posted a comment on it saying just rap your arms around me, and she came in behind me and said that if he was gonna rap his arms around anyone it was gonna be her. he swore to me on his daughter(dont ask!!!) i emailed him( i found it at like 4 am) asking him if he was cheating on me. im so sad and i feel so unwanted, like no guy wants to be with me. she has a thing on her page saying that they started dating yesterday.what do u think?

Answer 1

Sounds like the guy is a bit of a loser. Go and date someone else. There are plenty more guys out there who are a lot more trust worthy. Or you could date a guy who cheats and will probably dump you at a later date to be with someone else anyway. Your choice.

You're 14 and dating a guy with a child? How old is this guy? Sounds like he isn't so much a loser as a freak child molester.

OK then. He isn't a child molester he is a weirdo who has a child age 16 (or under) disowns the girl and then goes after a 14 year old who it would be illegal to have s*x with. I worry about morals these days. There just don't seem to be any.

Answer 2

I think he is not good for you...

Answer 3

I'm really worried as to how old your bf is if he has a daughter. You're only 14, there will be other guys. I think you should really consider what you want, and if this person is worth it

Answer 4

I think you deserve better and they deserve each other. Let her have his problems and c**p. He is not worth it! Try not to be desperate. You can and will do better next time. I know it's eating away at your self-esteem and self-confidence but try to be nice to yourself and do something special for yourself. Read a book on love or spiritual book. It will enlighten your spirit and make you feel better. You are very young and there are plenty of boys and time to find someone who will respect you.  

Answer 5

Well, it definitely sounds like he is cheating!  No brainer there!  Dump him.  Also, it sounds like you are dating an older man, or in this case, a sleezebag.  This sounds like he could be breaking the law by even going out with you.  In any case, he is taking advantage of you.  Break up, and stick to your studies and doing well in highschool so that you can get a good job or college education.  Don't waste your time on sleezebags.  You will regret it!

Answer 6

go away.you don't want to live wit the doubts,if he cheat you once he will do it again,and if he cheat on you he is not going to tell you the truth,its not your fault don't blame your self because is not worth it,ok what if he cheated on you,move on its hard but its better at the end you will not suffer and you will do something good for your self

Answer 7

ok people he is 16 and he is not some child molester??? of course he is your under age and he isn't, he is a sicko, he is off getting someone his own age and you should get someone your age or is he going after more 14 year old girls