I think my boyfriend may be married, how do i find out for free?

Question

I need a web site that will check for info on a man that may or may not be married, but I don't want to pay for it!

Answer 1

If this is your gut feeling, then probably you are right.  Simply asking him would not really help because he would deny it.  My idea is to offer to make an intimate  dinner at his house. Order if you cannot cook.  If the answer is no,then .....  Then Ask him to invite his friends to some activity where you will invite some of your friends.

Also, tell him you would like to meet his mother or other relatives.  Do you know where he lives?  If not, then find out.  Does he only have a cell phone? Do you know exactly where he works?  Is he only available certain days?  Theses can all be clues to him being married.

Ask all about his background,schools etc.  If you can check out anything he says and find it untrue,  then run away and never turn back.

Answer 2

You can go to the county courts office and look up vital statistics. It will list all marriages, divorces, deaths, etc. If he is married it will be there. If he married in another state, you can also ask with their vital stats and find out. Hun, if your gut tells you he is, you already know that answer. If he acts sneaky, hides his wallet, makes excuses about the holidays , stuff like that? He has a wife, kids. Don't deal with that, find a single guy who really is single, not into playing games, or a divorced guy, a widower, but married men rarely leave their wives for a girlfriend. Hate to say it, but he is using you for s*x. If he is single, ask him why his behavior is so erratic, does he have another cookie on the side? If he refuses to answer, Bingo.  

Answer 3

Pay now..or PAY later!!!

Answer 4

In most states, you have to order a copy of a person's marriage decree for a fee. There is no way to get that information free.

Answer 5

Well do you know anyone that can run his tag number because usually people that are married have each other on the registration. Anyway how can you call him your boyfriend if you think he's married? Did you meet him last week and calling him your boyfriend this week? Hopefully not! Its a website www.marylandtaxassessment.com will tell a person's home value and their names but you have to know the address unless he has no property.

Answer 6

oh if you think he is, he is....follow your intuition if not your gut hon.......you've already paid......now run the other way before it costs you more than any human can afford

Answer 7

Check at your local courthouse.  

Answer 8

just ask him!

Answer 9

Do it the old fashion way, go through his phone and check his text messages.  Look for the "Home" number and call it.  Sounds like you already know, if he doesn't spend the night and doesn't answer your phone calls in the middle of the night he likely has someone that he goes home to.

Answer 10

I live in Ohio and most counties have a government web site. There you can check all public records that you use to have to go to the court house to do. I would start there, with your local governments records.

Answer 11

Well if you do not check, you might find yourself in a Poly marriage. That would be cool, until the authorities come to drag you off, and the media tries to make you look like those FDS types.