I think my friend likes someone else and she's married, should I say anything?

Question

I work with her and have notice her and this other guy we work with having the hots for each other. Both are married.

Answer 1

should you say something to who??  her the guy or their spouses?  they are adults they will do what they wanna do and whatever you say is not going to change anything besides her being your friend....you can tell her "I don't know whats going on but I think u need to be careful cause things like this get messy and end up causing a lot of hurt and damage" and leave it at that...cause she wont want to talk to you if you are in her business

Answer 2

well remind her she is married!

Answer 3

Why should you its non of your business.

Answer 4

If her husband is worth keeping tell her to watch her step because she might lose him for no good reason.  Other than that keep quiet.

Answer 5

no let her be a lil w***e if the guy needs someone to slob his nob let her take the *** shots  

Answer 6

We are all attracted to other people....we are married, not dead.  But if this goes beyond friendly conversation you may casually say something to her.

Answer 7

Well that depends. Sometimes harmless flirting is nothing more than harmless flirting. On the other hand if you two are friends then you should know her well enough to tell if there is real reason to be concerned.

Answer 8

Dont get into it shes going to get mad

or tell the guy if hes not aware shes married

Silently when nobodys around :)

Answer 9

Time to pony up and be areal friend.

Take her aside privately and tell her it is time to live up to her marriage vows.  Either she breaks it off with office BF, or you will document their relationship so her husband can sue for divorce.

Her husband does not deserve a cheating wife!  

Answer 10

Maybe you should stay out of it. If you do opt to say something, just say it one time. Tell her what they're doing is wrong, and that there are consequences.

Answer 11

Just tell her that people at work are starting to talk about they way the 2 of them behave when they are together.  It looks like they might be having an affair.  

Answer 12

What could you say that she doesn't already know?  "Don't cheat, it's wrong?".  

They are both adults and no matter what you say, they are going to do what they want anyway.

Answer 13

If you value your friendship with this person, then I would suggest you not say a single word to her.  To do so might end the friendship.  She's going to do whatever her little heart desires anyway.  

Answer 14

  OK this is where men and women are different. I knew for a fact that my best friend's wife was having an affair for 10 years. I never said a thing, it wasn't any of my business. This month they are celebrating their 38th wedding anniversary. Enough said.

Answer 15

What would say and who would you say it to. STAY OUT!!! The truth will prevail. It is not your place to say anything. Try to continue to be a co-worker and WORK. In the end if/when they get caught you will have nothing to do with the consequences except for someones broken heart. Trust this act of infidelity has absolutely nothing to do with you. If you are not married to either one of them then you have no reason to say anything.

Answer 16

If its not affecting you.. you then say nothing!

Answer 17

just ask her about it

Answer 18

None of your business. Stay out of it.