I think my mom hates me now??

Question

we get in fights all the time and now she wont even talk to me. she talks to my brother and sister about anything and everything but she just completely ignores me. whenever i try to make conversation she just gives short and simple responses. i dont even think shed care if i was dead. i do everything she asks me to plus more and nothing is ever good enough. please help

Answer 1

try opening up to her tell her how you feel

Answer 2

There must be a reason as to why she's doing this to you. Although it might be really hard (for most people it is), but confront her about your problem and see if she lightens up on her neglect issue.

Answer 3

ALL PARENTS R LIKE THAT EVENTUALLY THEY END UP TALKIN 2 U BUT IF THEY DONT U SHOULD KEEP TRYING

Answer 4

Go up to her and tell her how you feel. She loves you but is probably really angry you are treating her like you are.

Good luck

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Answer 5

well i was gonna say that a mom could never hate her child... and i do believe that but that doesnt mean that they cant be mean just like everyone else... did you do something to lose her trust..... cause i used to do that all the time with my mom and she did me the same way.... it was because i had hurt her.... maybe you should sit down and tell her how you feel and try and get to the root of the problem...... i hope everything works out for you

Answer 6

I doubt your mom hates you.

Try and talk to her about whats going on with your relationship. I know it sounds scary, but you should just try...

I bet you're just going through a rough patch and it will sort it's self out in the end.

Answer 7

Mother's do not hate there children or a certain child.  She may be up set at you for something that you did not tell us about that hurt her.

What ever happened between the two of you needs to be settled.  Go talk with her and tell her that you are sorry for what ever you did wrong.  That you can't stand for her not to talk with you and you miss talking with her.  She is your mother you can say anything you want to her.  Blessings!    

Answer 8

I had a mom that preferred my brother over me. I just talked to them when they spoke to me or if i was interested in their conversation i'd add my 2 cents. if you are looking to improve your relationship with your mom, get her alone and just tell her how you feel about the condition of your relationship. ask to do things with her 1 on 1. if you don't speak up and let her know how you feel it's not likely that anything will change.

Answer 9

If what you say is true (and there is always the other side to the story) then continue to do everything she asks you and more, and start focusing on yourself as well.  Only she knows what is going through her head, and only she can tell you why she is doing and thinking what she is thinking.

However, I doubt very seriously that she hates you.

Be the best child you can be, and focus on becoming the best person you can be.  She will either come around eventually or she won't.  But you have a life to build.  Do not let her stop you from doing that.

Answer 10

She doesnt hate you...she is probably avoiding you so that you and her dont have any more fights.Say sorry and try being really nice to her and if that doesnt work tell her how you feel or even give her a hug.

good luck :)