I think my mom is mental insane long but idk i need advice?

Question

i dont want to post personal family matters online but i think my mom is insane. and i cant take it anymore.

she is over religous. to the ******* extrem. she sprayed my friends with holy water in a fabrez bottle when they came over. she thinks ac/dc,redhot chill peppers,pink flod is concecrated to satan. i mean h**l she took me to sonic and told me i was the portal to satan and that i was trying to ruin her. and then she tells me how im turning to the dark side.(i go to church and i dont brust in to flames prof enough)

h**l she is always trying to pick fights with my bro and i just to ground us. she goes around telling us that were ungrate ful children and selfcentered.(my dad has horrible health) she told me that his health is my fault that if he dies that it b/c of me. oh joy you know what she told my bro, that she was going to lock her self in her room and ethier pack her self and leave or comment suicde and it would be his fault.

and yesterday, i HAD to go to this thing for school and it was my dads birthday so we went to the school the fuedrucres(that burger place) but my dad had to wait in the car she had been bicthing and nagging telling me how self center i am, so when we got back she said this right in front of me, "happy birthaday, even though its been a horrible one for you" and she also called my bro a bastered in public, because he didnt want to go up to the conter and order a burger...i dont know what to do it gets so much worst. just geez any way i came deal with this?

Answer 1

wow that sucks

she sounds like a paranoid scizophrenic or

like she has psychotic depression

my mom is bipolar with psychotic episodes

she got help before i was born, so luckily

ive only seen her sick a few times, and she

always went to the hospital, got her meds

changed and was fine

but from what my sister told me, it sounds like

a living h**l to have your mother deal with

those problems .. i feel for you and your mother

try to keep in mind that she cant help it aand

speak with other family member and see what

they think should happen

good luck, and take care :)

Answer 2

call the police and see if they have any answers for you.

Answer 3

Honey, I hope you get a scholarship to go to college, so you can get an education and get the h**l out of there. Normally, I don't say that, but your mom is not stable.  You need to understand that if you don't get a college education, you are going to struggle.  

You did not say how old you area.  I am a big church person, but this type of church person is not a true representation of God, but someone who is so far from the truth of God, that they cannot see the light of God.  I'm sorry you got disgraced at Fudruckers.  Also, sometimes family members, make sacrifices like waiting in the car for 30 minutes for others.  You are not a disgrace to your mom, even though she says that.  She is just talking to 'wound' you for some reason.  

Do you have grandparents, or an Aunt or Uncle you can live with?  Maybe a friend's house you can move too. That's what you really need.  I'm not kidding about the college. You can get a full scholarship for 4 years of college, and you need to talk to your counselor about it now, even if you are only 14.  Talk to them first thing Monday about how to get going on it.  You will need everything you can to make your own way in life.  

Someone could call Social Services, but Religious Zealots, as your mother is known in the world, are not reason for home removal of children.  Verbal Abuse is, and so is neglect.  One other thing. You and your brother stick together through thick and thin.  Do not let your mother separate you two emotionally.  You really need each other.  Your poor father.  But he did choose her as his wife and that is his burden to bear.  She is not your wife, she is your mother.

Answer 4

Sounds like the movie "Carrie"  her mom.  Have you thought about calling social services?  can you talk to your pastor?  people that are "religious" are very dangerous. I would like to know what church does she attend?  You said your dad was ill, what does he think about her wigging out?  I would definitely try to have someone help y'all to see about getting momma some help.  What about a aunt, grand-parents, neighbor somebody.  Good luck hopefully she gets the help she needs so you and your brother can have peace.

Answer 5

I think that Im only hearing one side of the story on this one.  It depends on what made your mother spray you with fabreeze what was said or done and by whom.  It depends on what was said and done for your mother to pick fights with her children... you know like are you doing your chores, homework, cleaning your room, washing your clothes, are you earning money outside the home, those type of things.  

Your mother does sound a bit extreme on the religious side though and she has a right not to like Pink Floyd, as not everyone does.  As long as you live under their roof and take their money, your parents have every right to expect you to do something besides sit around and moan.

Answer 6

i dont think she's crazy. probably just has anger issues. talk to ur school councelor to set up a family counsoling session

Answer 7

Go to the school councilor for they are train in many way but, it seem like your mother is mentally abusing u or go to the school nurse or a teacher u trust! She needs help and so do u!