I think my v****a is too small??

Question

okay I'm 14 and have had my period since i was in grade 6. I have gone through puberty. But i think i have a problem my v****a seems very small. I am unable to put a tampax pearl lite tampon in. Like i push as far as i can and there is still fibers showing. My lips on my v****a are also very small. I am just worried that when i get older i won't be able to have s*x i mean i can't even fit a lite tampon how is a guy's p***s going to fit? So my question is there something wrong with me and should i like go see a doctor or something. This is really embarrassing.

Answer 1

dont worry one day when you are in a committed relationship and are much older it will fit - trust me i know as i to have a small v****a - i had a very hard time wearing tampons and they always hurt me so i started using just pads and stuck with that only, i am now 34 and i know i still have a small v****a but dont worry it will all work out and please also wait for the right guy when you are both committed to each other it makes it so much more worth while.

Answer 2

i had the same problem but i figured out how to fix it why dont you try relaxing and putting your left leg on the toilet and ur right on the floor standin up.when you start to put the tampon in stand up straight legs in the same position and use the tampons with the plastic applicator the cardboard is a little bit harder and let the plastic applicator touch the tips of your v****a and oush the tampon sloww and easy and it should go in fine but i had troublw the 1st couple of times but everyone said it was bc i was nervous but i  tried this a couple times and got the hang of it and now i love tampons

Answer 3

hey

       i think whats wrong is your tensing up without noticing-i still do it sometimes,what to do is make sure your totally relaxed before you try again,u will get the hang of it eventually

Answer 4

i dont think ur v****a is small....i jus think thast maybe u shud wait till ur hymen breaks off before u use tampons/....

Answer 5

Women's genitals come in all shapes, sizes and colours.

Some have big, puffy outer lips and tiny little inner ones that can't even be seen without spreading their legs and outer lips both... some have smallish outer lips and inner lips that stick out firmly from them or hang... some have one lip that's one shape and the other lip is completely different.   Some have really big or really little clitorises.

Knowing and accepting your unique "genital geography" isn't something mothers usually pass along to their daughters... but it's something every woman should learn.

It's very unlikely that yours are *not* normal, and you should get to know them well and learn to love them.   They're a very important part of what it means to be *you*.

As for the tampons... the ones with plastic applicators *definitely* make things easier for girls who've never used tampons before... but once you know how, anything that's comfortable to wear will be easy to insert.

Helpful advice (beyond the semi-useless package directions)? Yeah... just three things:

1) Aim the tampon more towards your back than upwards... your v****a actually goes *back* for more than half of its length, not just up... and push it in as far as the applicator will go while you're still holding the end of it.

2) It'll be easier to do the first time if things are slippery "down there", so don't wipe away any blood and stuff until you've got the tampon in place. If there's very little blood there, just smear a couple of drops of saliva on the tip of the tampon (or its applicator if it has one) and it'll make things a lot more comfortable.

3) Relaxation is **important**. If relaxing isn't easy for you, try pushing just a little bit as if you're trying to p**p or pee... your pelvic muscles will relax a bit and that will help a *lot*.

There's an OK video instruction about it at

http://www.beinggirl.com/en_US/goods_tam...

... just click on the "click here" link in the third paragraph of the page.