I think she's smoking ALOT more than weed?

Question

I found out that my now ex best friend stole a gold braclet that my brother baught me for my birthday, I didn't even wear it yet.

I really want to punch her in the face, but I havn't seen her since she took it.

and she stole 20 dollars out of my other friends bag.

I've been thinking about what the h**l she needs the money for, I know it's not weed because if she wants that she can go to her brother (he's a dealer and he always throws her blunts for free)

I think she's snorting coke or something because I know she's done coke before, but she said she didn't have the money for it so she's never doing it again .

I mean I don't even care, if she can steal something like that from her best friend, in my opinion she's a lowlife. But it kinda bugs me because I've known her since kindergarden and we were so close, ehh idc

what do you think?

Answer 1

I think you're right -- every time I've seen that in someone I know it's been as a result of serious addiction, crack or Heroin. I imagine you could add meth to the list. (I've never known anyone to steal from friends or family because they were using powdered cocaine, but the big boss at a company I worked for once was caught stealing from the pension fund!)

I should add that this *doesn't* mean the person has turned into a bad person. They're that way while they're using the drug, but once they're free of it, they'll regret what they've done. I had a roommate who got hooked on crack and actually was sneaking my bank card out every night to the ATM and cleaning out my bank account! But he voluntarily repaid all the money he'd taken.

Answer 2

i think you do care

Answer 3

sorry to say but it sounds like your friend has become a tweeker(meth head).

Answer 4

I know this sounds extreme, but I would call the cops. First off she stole from you and your friends. If she did something like that to you, you know she can do it to family too, and strangers. She needs help, and if she is doing coke, than she's not even in the right frame of mind. I mean someone like that doesn't know what they are doing when they are doing it. You could always call and tell them you don't want to be revealed. Anyhow good luck with everything, but stay away from her.

Answer 5

You say you don't care when you really do. You just need to confront her about it, ask her if she stole your bracelet, if shes doing coke alot and such. Try and help her out and support her, without cornering her. My best friend last year she would steal my weed in gym class because she was so desperate for her next high and she didn't have any money. The things people do for drug money..

Answer 6

People change!

I believe there are NO bad people, only people with bad habits. After all is every baby and child not capable of producing and giving unconditional love? Sounds like your friend has strayed from the path. Sometimes people like this need help more than ever. So don't punch her and definitely dont make unfounded accusations, not saying that yours are. Just be careful as this is a touchy situation. Take time to think what you want to say to her. You wont be any help just yelling at her.

Answer 7

if she is smoking or snorting..she isn't going to listen but YOU can tell her you know and that when she wants help to stop you will help her if you can.  Then put distance between you and her.  She will remember if and when the time is right.

Answer 8

i think it is sad what drugs do to people

Answer 9

help her out if you really care for her orelse she will be a train wreck and fast

Answer 10

Maybe you should call the police or something. Let them deal with it. Maybe if she has already sold it, they will make her get a new one.

Talking to her would be pointless because she won't tell you she took it.

Answer 11

Why is she stealing you and your other friends stuff?

Definatley not for the money, unless of course her brother and her are fighting.  

You shouldn't tolerate this.  It's a sin to steal, and if she IS snorting coke, which I guarentee you she is, STOP her.  Marijuana costs you more than you think.

She could also be doin some meth, cocaine, heroine, etc.