I gave birth to our baby 3 weeks ago. I've seen some major changes in my husband. While I was pregnant, he was extremely excited and was involved in every class, every doctor's appointment, kissed and talked to my belly. He read books and was very attentive and caring for me. So, naturally, when our daughter was born, I expected him to be extremely helpful and excited about her. Instead, I feel like I'm walking on eggshells in my own home. He works from home, so he is here all day. I do my best not to interrupt him during his work, but if I say "honey" to start to ask him a simple question, he snaps a big "WHAT" at me. He is always complaining that he is tired, but he is the only one getting any sleep around here. The baby and I sleep in the living room and he sleeps in the bedroom. So I am getting no help at all during the day or the night. He has only changed 3 diapers the whole time we've had her home and one of those times he got angry at me for asking him to do it. He did apologize to me for that. Now he is crying at the drop of a hat. I've tried talking to him and offering my support, but he is very closed off. All of this is making me terribly sad and it's really hurting my feelings. I feel like he doesn't want me or our baby around. This is not the man I know at all whatsoever. He is someone totally different.
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