I thought it was supposed to hurt???

Question

Okay, well, i just had s*x for the frist time EVER yesterday, i always thought it was supposed to hurt but it didn't, it only hurt when he was pushing it in, but when we were actually having intercourse it didn't hurt at allm it felt good. we only had s*x for about 15 minutes, i did not bleed, i thought u were supposed to bleed too. Another question, i was VERY wet afterwards, is that normal?

Answer 1

I HOPE YOU WERE NOT VERY WET BECAUSE YOU DID NOT USE PROTECTION I HOPE YOU CONSIDER WHAT YOUR DOING A REALIZE THAT SOMETIMES A GOOD FEELING CAN CAUSE YOU YEARS OF I WISH I WOULD HAVE WAITED. YOU DONT WANT TO GET PREGNANT. SO BE CAREFUL

Answer 2

it doesn't hurt for everyone. some people's hymen is already torn before intercourse so it wouldn't hurt that much. also if you has masturbated before then that's another possibility. not everyone bleeds either, i didn't. yes it's normal to be wet afterwards. you probably was close to an o****m

Answer 3

You probably had already broken your hymen somehow, and when people have s*x and their hymen's break then they bleed. You could've broken it from strenuous activities. And yes, that just means you were very turned on. Unless he didn't use a condom, then some if it was you and some of it was his *ahem*.

Good luck and be safe.

Answer 4

everyone is different.

Answer 5

it does not always hurt or bleed. it depends on the size of the girl, and the size of the boy, along with how well a girl can handle it. (some girls just naturally can take intercourse without bleeding or pain, and some get that way through masturbation)

its always different

Answer 6

your to young to be having s*x i hope he used a condom if he didn't that's why you where wet and if he did use a condom it was your body that made you wet it is called a o****m

Answer 7

You probably already had broken your hymen through another non-s*x-related activity, such as riding a bicycle, so it didn't hurt.

Honestly, though, if you didn't know this already, you really shouldn't be having s*x at all. Way too young.

Answer 8

please say you used protection!!! do you want to have a baby!! and no it doesn't always hurt( it didn't hurt me)

and no not everyone bleeds( i didn't bleed)

just please use protection.. be safe  

Answer 9

It may not have hurt if you have already used tampons, because that breaks the hymen (skin covering over vaginal hole), and could also be reason why you didn't bleed. Also it is normal to be wet afterward, because you probably experinced an o****m...

Answer 10

my first time it didnt happen either! this could be maybe you use tampons and the skin that is supposed to break when you have intercourse had already broken. evey girl is different!

and yes being wet is normal!

Answer 11

I didnt hurt or bleed either on my first time, and i am very wet afterwards as well due to myself having an o****m. I hope you had fun, and please use protection.

Answer 12

How old are you????

Answer 13

Yes it's very normal.

Answer 14

It also depends on his size if hes small then maybe thats why it didnt hurt and 15 min only, dang kids these days cant last..

Answer 15

It doesn't always bleed, and it doesn't always hurt (lucky!). Being wet afterwards is very normal, it's your body adapting to make intercourse easier.

Answer 16

Yes it's normal to feel wet afterwards. Also, to answer your main question, everyone's body is different.

Answer 17

OMG only 15 minutes HAHAHAHAHAHA

first you probably broken you hmen already .

th you were wt because you had an o****m

people like you shoulnt be having s*x

Answer 18

well, for every women it's different, but yeah it can be wet afterword's because we as women create our own juices, but if you didn't use a condom, that could of been his sperm coming out, that's if he didn't pull out. Oh and if you didn't use a condom, your crazy.

Answer 19

Only 15? Wow.  What is this world coming to? I guess it is different for everyone.  You don't always have to bleed.  You don't know why you were wet? Then you are definitely too young to be having s*x.  Your boyfriend, I hope, ejaculated into you.  It is s***n which has sperm in it.  I hope you were smart enough to wear a condom so that you don't wind up pregnant.  You can get pregnant the first time you ever have s*x.