I told my mom that i was going to do this but she went and did something.?

Question

I told my mom acouple of weeks ago that i dont like living here and i would be moving out ON my 18th bdaybut just a week ago she went and go a full time job and i told her like 3 nights ago that i still planned on doing it and she just brushed it off now she will have 2 babies at home and no one to watch them and she still has a job i really dont know wat to do and staying here is not an option when i turn 18 and i don't have friends i can stay with till i am 18 and i will be moving out of state when i turn 18 so i cant still baby sit

Answer 1

Not your problem. Just leave.  

Answer 2

Move out anyway. Your mom can look into putting the babies into day care.

Answer 3

well maybe your mom could move to whatever state ur moving to so u could all be together....

Answer 4

It's your life hon... you can do what you want.  But your mother did sacrifice alot to raise you too.  You'll have to weigh those two facts and make your decision.  Good luck.

Answer 5

why did you have to be a "terrible" daughter and leave your mom alone to raise the kids?

she raised you for 18 years, didn't she?

it's about time you should try to payback....

it would take you more than a life time anyway

why is staying at home not an option? apologize/or whatever, and say you'll stay. are you going to school?

Answer 6

Your mom is probably thinking that you are bluffing let her continue to think that way.  you have done your part to inform her and she still refuses to listen.  It sounds to me like you are the one taking care of her responsibilities anyway.  Walk away this is not your place and hope things work out better for you

Answer 7

what are you asking?

Answer 8

When you turn 18, you will be an adult and will be able to do what you need to do.  She didn't get a job because of you but because she needed a job.  It isn't always all about you, right?

The babies are her responsibility, not yours.  But until you turn 18, she is the boss.