I turn 18 in three months, my bf doesn't until 4 months after that....?

Question

does that mean if we have s*x, i could get charged for rape?

i heard that its okay if its just a small difference, but i'm not sure.

i think its different in every state.

i live in oregon.

Answer 1

its fine.

Answer 2

go for it. git r done. take a risk its always more fun on the edge.

USE PROTECTION. HaHa.  

Answer 3

uh for one thing your a girl so your not going to get charged for raping a GUY. hah plus your dating him so its not considered rape. thats a small age difference too

Answer 4

You wont get charged for rape.

Do you think he will go the police and

claim you forcefully raped him?

You're fine if your together.

And alot of times, its bias but

people/judges even if he took you to court

wouldnt see it that way beacause you are female

and  he is male. Dont wry about it :]

Answer 5

wowzers...

you better be carefull!!

idk about oregon..

Answer 6

naw oregon is strict but if it feels any better by the time the paper work goes through and its even processed you both will b 18 so even if the age is 18 then your fine

Answer 7

You will have to check your state laws, but where I live, it is legal because you have to be within 4 years of each other in age or something.  

Answer 8

4 months you should be okay. i mean it cant be smaller than that of a age range. you be okay. and dont tell any one that could get you in trouble if you that worried.

Answer 9

Things like this are only a problem if someone presses charges and I doubt that he will, and I don't think his parents will unless they hate you or something.  I wouldn't worry about it.

Answer 10

i heard in jail they rape the guys who get charged with sleeping with minors, he better watch out

Answer 11

no it wouldnt be considered rape.

Answer 12

i dont think they will care.  

Answer 13

You should be fine.

Its not that bad unless it was a whole year i believe

Answer 14

well if he for some reason would charge you for rape then it might be.  But i seriously doubt that your boyfriend would consider it rape and file charges

Answer 15

technically, it can be rape. But, laws are flexible

Answer 16

no way and if anyone tells you otherwise they are wrong. as long as he is over 16 you are fine. believe me.