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I walked in on my 10 year old son and he was naked , and now he wont to come out of his room what should i do?

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I walked in on my 10 year old son and he was naked , and now he wont to come out of his room what should i do?

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  1. More importantly, what did you do when this happened? And how have you reacted, if it has happened, if the situation was reversed?

    Saying sorry and backing out might have been the best option at the time.

    Honestly, I think I would need more information to help.  


  2. nothing.  you have every right to go into your son's room.  so he won't come out.  when he's hungry enough, he'll come out.  When he needs to use the bathroom he'll come out.  and when it's time for school, you'll drag him out and take him to school or the bus stop.  If you give into him in any way, your relationship will be changed forever for the worse.  Parents have to be reasonable and strong.  Some silly 10 year old who won't love you any more cannot be allowed to run your home or the parent child relationship.

    Good Luck.

  3. masturbating so young?!

  4. Just let him be

  5. it's probably worse on you than him, but, talk to him.  Tell him that since he is getting bigger, the house rule isto knock before entering.  This includes bathrooms, bedrooms, anywhere.  Let him know that you did not mean to walk in on him and you would feel just as embarrassed if he walked in on you.  Promise him that you will knock from now on!!

  6. LOL,

    JUST DONT TALK ABOUT IT ANYMORE

    JUST SAY SORRY & LEAVE IT AT THAT

  7. Just leave him alone for now, for he's at that age where he needs his privacy as he begins entering the stages of puberty and his body's changing. He probably thought he did something wrong and feels ashamed to face you. If he still won't come out, talk to him through the door, telling him there's nothing wrong with his being nude and he was right for only bein in his room. As you settle his jumbled feelings, he'll talk to you. Hope this helps.

  8. LOL JUST FORGET ABOUT IT I MEAN HE WAS JUST PROBLEY HAVIN SOME GUY TIME AND NOW HE IS JUST EMBRACED

  9. You do nothing.  He was embarrassed.  He'll get over it, but right now he just wants not to be seen by you right now after the incident.  Give him time to get over what happened, and to just calm down about it.  Then talk to him if you want. Remember to knock and wait for him to say "alright" or "come in" next time.

  10. was he changing???

    im sure it waznt masterbating

  11. Aw poor guy. just say sorry and never bring it up again. and make sure he knows about the option on locking a door

  12. Gosh, my grandson was still walking around the house naked at 10! But, since your son seems to be a little more modest.... just tell him you're sorry you didn't knock, tell him he may lock the door while dressing if he feels it's necessary and tell him that you will do your best to respect his privacy from now on. Also, you may ask him why it was so embarrassing- if he's open with you. Maybe it's time to leave a book about growing up in his room of bathroom?

  13. HAHA.

    Just let him come out whenever he's clothed and ready.

    So he'll be over it and you don't need an awkward apology that would be embaressing for the both of you.

  14. Maybe it's time to not only start respecting his privacy (within reason), but also begin discussing the changes with his body he is about to experience.  What happened is most likely related to some curiosity about his body.    

  15. Nothing, and next time have the courtesy to knock.

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