I wanna be myself without getting insulted?

Question

i honestly hate myself sometimes...people say "be yourself" okay..i AM myself! i follow what i like...my music,my style,my stuff..there's these 2 girls at my school who basically wanna ruin my life..i dunno why!i came kinda diffrent one day and they were laughing and making fun of the way i looked..i liked the way i look...i was wearing brand new vans, a better hairstyle, new earring, and they were saying how my shoes were bulky and i had chicken legs and i walked in feeling confident..when then i wanted to cry and run out..and i just..dont know what to do...im not a s**t like they are..i have guy friends but im no where near a s**t when im with them.they are!and then they tell my friends "hey don't you think she's being S****y" and tries getting me friends to talk about me!if people say "be yourself and people will like you for who you are"...how does that concept work?i know i should just ignore them..but i don't know what to do..

Answer 1

ummm.....sounds like ur in middle school....i had this one girl not like me for no reason whatsoever and she knew she was more popular than me i have no idea why she cared so much about me, i didn't care about her. anyway, i know where u are coming from about the be urself thing i ppl say be urself and it just isn't working.

Answer 2

Wow, those girls are horrible. I know how hard that can be. People can be horrible in school. Please try not to let it bother you. I honestly think they are just jealous. It intimidates them that you are not afraid to be your own person. They have to make sure that they have their friends' approval so they all try to be clones. I know it is hard but try to ignore them and just do your thing. If they know it bothers you they'll just keep on but if you show them that you really don't care what they think they'll get tired of the game and move on. Good luck!

Answer 3

They're afraid that you'll take their positions as the popular kids.  Just ignore them, and soon you'll take their role.

Answer 4

huny they are just to scared to be who they really are deep dwn they are jealous

Answer 5

i know this isn't the answer your looking for but keep your head up high I'm not saying be rude I'm saying be proud your different and not being the next barbie! People who bully have no self confidence! let them think what they want to think there only saying what they want to hear they wanna make you feel bad about yourself so they can over power you and don't let it happen to you it has happened to me and im still trying to get over it 3 years later okay be your self you only live once and now look you'll have fun and be living your nice life while these girls will be having the worst time of their life remembering what they did to people and only only listen to whats in your heart!

oX Live Laugh Love Xo

Answer 6

Something like that happened to me,

I wore some new Vans, skinny jeans, and all the works.

Some girls started saying how I had huge feet and that I looked so scary? Then, they started calling me a w***e because all of my friends are guys, cept for one who is my best friend. And a girl.

I just really ignored them, they just insult people to become "cooler" or feel better about theirselves. You know you look awsome, so forget them.

At least your not a Aberzombie. Haha.

All my guy friends are hilarious, and make me smile. Besides, girls make more drama then guys, dont theyy?

Answer 7

go tell them off in a public place so they'll be to embarased to say anything 2 u wat i' tell them is "im not a d**k so get ma name out yo mouth  nd go find a guy who'll give u 5 cents to suck B*tch"

Answer 8

Hey, Man I know how you feel

I am completely different then everyone at my school and the first to the 3 month of school of my 7th grade year

(New school New people and everything)

And every one made fun of me seriously

They used point and laugh at me and call me emo and goth and very insulting stereotypes

And I used to come to my friends crying but then I told myself if they don't like it they could just f*ck off

So I still wore what I wanted to wear and then people started to copy me.

I felt good and I was a role Model to half of the people and most of the guys had crushes on me.

It felt good.

Answer 9

betchess!

do NOT listen to them. there are too many girls like that, that tear people down so they feel better. if you feel good about yourself, you look good. who gives a c**p what you wear and everything!

Answer 10

look at one from there face to there toes and then the other face to toes start laughing and walk away...I know your emo...It's tough for emos....All of us...Your not alone....All the emos are together even if you dont us.Together.

Answer 11

i got ya but i amjust like you....truely! i am 16 and if you are not S****y thenyou are not in....if ya wanna talk to someone then just say!!! i love vans and all skater shoes! i am just really different then a lot of people...but i like it! good luck! =)

Answer 12

girls builles can be the knock off of a boy buillie without the hitting and fighting (some will some won't) but ingore them i;m sure they look like c**p so that why the pick on you

Answer 13

just tell them to f of and get out of ur life or just when they sat something about u just laugh or walk away...(DONT SHOW PAIN ON UR FACE)

Answer 14

yah, i get that too... you just gotta walk in, hold your head up high, and look them straight in the eyes and tell them you like who you are, and they should stay out of your business if they don't like you... if your confident in yourself they can't hurt you, cuz they're just dumb for being like that.. everyone should be their own person

Answer 15

well my policy is im gonna be my-self and if you do like me thats good and if you dint i dont give a f*** wht you think

but i have really good friend that i no they got my back no matter wht i look like