I wanna have a baby but i dont know if i should?

Question

i dunno if i should

Answer 1

Why don't you know if you should, obviously there must be a few reasons apart from economics, after all, its expensive to have kids these days.

Many questions need to be asked but it would help if your decision is

decisive and not to think in terms of am i taking a risk unless health is a issue

I was 35 when I married and my wife (then 25) whom swore never to have kids as she preferred to be childless but I took into account on her changing her mind which she did 3 years later and we have one son aged 15 now and never looked back!

Answer 2

well do it and i will help:):):)

Answer 3

I'm holding my 3 month old daughter in my arms , it is a great feeling . now you're question. as long as you know that a baby is a 24 hour job, go for it. make the child with love don't just make one. good luck with you decision.  

Answer 4

Be completely sure before deciding to take on such a large responsibility. Babies are wonderful, but the upkeep is a lot of work. Do you have the means to provide for a child? Can you give love and support unselfishly? Babies are not something yo can shove off when you just don't feel like it.

You should not have a child until you are sure of these things.

Answer 5

a baby changes EVERYTHING.

every single thing in your life will change

just keep that in mind.  

Answer 6

are u married?? how old r u?? whatever u do dont abort!!!

                     good luck

Answer 7

You should only have a baby if you are 110% positive about it. Babies aren't like pets that you can give away if you change your mind (if you don't count adoption agencies anyways). They are a full time responsibility made for 2 people, so I'd say no for sure.

Answer 8

Well, how old are you?  Are you married?  Do you have the financial means to care for a human being?  

Answer 9

Then don't.

Answer 10

um..how old are you?

Are you in a pretty decent economic/financial situation to be able to support your baby?

Are you responsible and mature enough?

Are you ready to leave the world that only required reponsibility for yourself and be able to take a big step and take care of another being?

my uncle just had a baby...gosh he's such a darling! but is a big responsibilty..its like you  need to be watching him and feeding him at ALL times! so you decide, only you know what is best

good luck

Answer 11

I know that choosing to become a mother is scary. Here's what you should ask yourself before deciding:

1) Are you financially ready for a baby?

2) Do you have time for a baby, or are you willing to make time?

3) Do you feel like you've lived enough of your life to devote yourself fully to another human being until the day you die?

4) Do you feel emotionally ready to be a parent?

5) What about becoming a parent actually makes you question your desire for a child?

After you answer the above questions, you'll have a better idea of what is best for you at this time. If you feel you're ready, then congratulations. If not, don't sweat it. You'll become a mother when you're meant to. Good luck :)

Answer 12

Sounds like you want a baby and only a baby. That doesn't sound right to me. When you have a good man to marry then yes. Don't ever rush yourself!

Answer 13

if youre unsure youre not ready.but alot of ppl arent exactly ready until they have to be

Answer 14

What is your situation?

How old are you?

Are you married or in a very serious relationship?

Have you graduated from high school?

Do you have a job?

Do you have your own house, car, health insurance?

All of these things need to be considered when thinking about having a baby! If you have all of that taken care of, go ahead!

Answer 15

Well.

How old are you?

Are you in a stable relationship?

Do you have doubts?

Are you  finacelly ready?