I want a baby and he doesn't?

Question

We have been dating for a while now. Finally had the baby time, and found out he doesn't want any and i surely do. What should I do? and leaving him is not an option.

Answer 1

Why is it that leaving him is not an option?  You are only dating him.  Lets put it this way...he will leave you in a heartbeat if you "accidentally" get pregnant.

The reason to date someone is to give you time to get to know each other.  Not the time to procreate.

Funny thing is, I bet when this guy is 45 he will be on the hunt to find a nice young hottie to have his child.  By then he will finally realize what he missed out on.

Answer 2

If leaving him is not an option you can (a) respect his wishes because it's horrible to trick someone into becoming a parent and very disrespectful; (b) nag him constantly about it and he may break down and cave.

Answer 3

Don't have the baby. He or she won't be wanted by your boyfriend. The relationship will be over once you get pregnant. Then you will be taking care of the baby on your own. He will be furious at having to pay child support. Don't do it. Trust me.

Answer 4

next time you have s*x, snip the top part of the condom.

;)

he wouldn't have a choice then, ah?

Answer 5

Maybe he just not ready to become the father.