I have been married for 8 years. For a long while, I have wanted to leave him, but I don't because we have children. 3 boys, two from his previous marriage and we have a seven year old together. I have told him that I wanted a divorce, and I just stay. I am now on anti-anxiety medication because I am so stressed out about everything. I am incredibly unhappy, and over the past month it has gotten really bad. He doesn't turn me on at all, I can't stand to be in the same room with him, be touched by him or even talk to him. Since I told him i wanted a divorce, he has been smothering me, and hovering. He will sit on the bed when i wake up and stare at me. It's to the point that suicidal thoughts have crossed my mind. I would never in my life do that because I love myself and I love my son. But it has popped in there as a "this is how badly I want out."
Here is the kicker. He is a wonderful man. The best father. Anyone would be incredibly lucky to have him. I feel I am even doing him a disservice just being here when i am so unhappy. He doesn't want a divorce, and I don't want to be married to him. What do I do?
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