I want a kid...?

Question

Im a 20 year old guy and cant wait to have a kid. Is it normal for a guy, such as me, to want to have a kid at this age? Should I wait?

Answer 1

I have known a couple guys around your age wanting kids.

I dont think you should put much of an age range on it... other factors are more important, such as are you in a stable relationship? Are you financialy secure? Mature and independant?

So before thinking of changing your life drasticaly think about those things first.

Having a child is a huge deal, its not like if after you have it you can change your mind and say nevermind, I will wait til later.

Answer 2

Im not sure if its normal or not but im really glad that u cant wait to have kids but you should probably make sure that you have found the right person first

Answer 3

It is normal for a man to want children. However, I do not encourage just finding any woman to have your child. You will have the whole "baby mama drama" going on. My husband was that old when he took on the father role for my son. He makes a terrific dad.

Any man that WANTS to be a father and cannot wait to become a father will make a terrific dad. Anyone can be a father, but it takes a real man to be a dad.

Answer 4

Hmmm..I would suggest finding your future child the right mommy first.  I think it's great that you really want a child.  :)

Answer 5

yes, you should wait. but its your life, do as you please!

Answer 6

I think its nice, and when the time is right and you have met the right person you should. But unfortunately, if you have a baby with just anyone and end up splitting up, you may not see the baby as much as you'd like because mothers tend to be primary care givers. Maybe you should think about fostering in the mean time? Or volunteering at a youth or childrens center? Might give you insight for when you have your own children!

Answer 7

It's normal. Are you married? If not it's better to wait for you to get marry.