I want advice people..

Question

i have a cousin, who is really close to me, she is nice and all but she can be really proud because of money and things. i mean she treats people differently because they aren't rich enough or not up to the latest trends and it makes me sic..how can i tell her to stop this c**p...cuz it hurts people...n i don't like it

Answer 1

well I'm gonna guess she has always been this way....my cousin is the same way...u wont get very far....that's how she is nd wont change till she hits rock bottom for once in her life.....i would just keep my distance nd when your with her just bite ur tongue.

Answer 2

You said she's nice and all...then you said the way she hurts people makes you sic.

I'm guessing that she may not be totally aware of what she's doing in so hurtful.  

How do you tell her.  Next time she does it, put a big smile on your face and say:  "ZING! oOooo you sure got him!"

She will ask what that means, and you can laugh and say:

"You let him know who has the cash!"  and smile.

If you use the demeanor to "confront" her, she'll get defensive.  Use the humorous approach above, it will work better.

^j^

Answer 3

In ur situation I would confront her about how u feel about her acting the way she does. Let her know it can come back 3 times as worse. If she chooses not to listen to u, then she's not really a good cousin.

Taking the funny approach is a good idea, but either way it goes, she'll still be on the defensive. Ur just gonna have to let her be on the defensive. And if she chooses to continue her ways, I'd just leave her be and let her crash. Tell her when she crashes that u tried talking to her, but she wouldn't listen. Sometimes ppl don't wanna know the heart to heart way, they can only learn the hard way.

Answer 4

plainly shes stuck up yes?

No matter what you do or say she will continue to look down her nose at any one she deems a lesser to her. I wouldnt waste my breath trying to tell her what she is doing is nasty she wont care. Look at the world today the rich get richer the poor get stepped on it will never change and people whom act the way she does will stay the same until one day mummy and daddy wont be there to pay the bill or catch her when she falls and she will land on her **** and cry and then maybe just maybe she will see the way the rich treat those they THINK dont have money and hopefully she may change a little. But for now darl let her be a ***** to others she will need help one day and find no one has time for her anymore.

Answer 5

Your cousin is a very materialistic, shallow, spoiled little girl, who thinks that she is perfect, when in fact she isn't.

I don't think you can stop her or change her attitude. The way she is has been learned for some where, perhaps her parents look down on people & judge people by material standards too.

  She will one day, fall down to earth from her materialistic perfection cloud, with a big thud. She will meet someone who thinks that she just doesn't make the grade, only then will your cousin change her attitude. For you hun, it's just a waiting game, but rest assured, it will happen to her.

Good Luck. X :-)

Answer 6

all you can do is tell her how you feel otherwise she will eventually learn it the hard way on her own  

Answer 7

Do it like you dd here. Talk to her and have a heart to heart with her.Tell her it might come back on her later in life if she doesn't change her ways.that she wouldn't like it if the shoe was on the other foot.