I want advice please...and im tired of getting one or two answers..so please help me! easy 10 points!?

Question

ok..im 15 and i never had a bf....but now i really want one...ya guys asked me out but i never liked them..and all the guys i liked...never liked me....but theres this really nice guy that i like i know him for about a year and me and him are friends...i met him in band...where not nerds and geeks...but we call ourselves band geeks for laughs! i know he is not the kind of guy that is s*x crazy...and he is the type would like sweet girls..but the problem is, is that i get really nervous and act diffrent around him..like very loud..i know i shouldnt do this..its now how i really act..but ugh! im so nervous!!! i more of a shy person....

but please help me! how can i be sweet towards him while being shy! and how can i stop being nervous!

10 points and thumbs up promised!

Answer 1

When he talks to you just be like hey and stuff and try to act normal and nice. I know what you mean because I use to do it but you just have to keep telling your self "be sweet, be sweet, be sweet, be sweet..." lol. it'll eventually catch on. theres not much i can tell you because only you can change how u act. but good luck=)

Answer 2

if he doesnt like u then he is just one guy and ull find better then him why would u wana change how u are for guy bc u should want him to like u for u so dont change for him there will be other guys as far as being nervous just try and relax around him take deep breaths lol just try and be urself no matter how corny u are lol good luck

Answer 3

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Answer 4

Simply be confident girl and be yourself! Boys would want a girl who is real and true, without pretensions! Maybe your very shy to him because you always want to impressed him thats why you act indifferently and not being yourself anymore towards him. Its a NO, No.. just be yourself and everything will follow, the nervousness would gone eventually.

Answer 5

i actually think it's fine to be kind of shy towards the guy, he'll probably think it's cute or something. Being kind of nervous but sweet naturally makes things flirty. don't be loud though, you dont want to come off as obnoxious haha. just be yourself really :) talk to him like you're talking to your friend or such. smile alot, be playful with him...but at the same time don't be too obvious; you've got to leave him with some guesswork, get him curious about you.

good luck!  

Answer 6

me and my best friend are 14, and we sometimes have the exact the same problem with guys. our advice is to just try to forget that you like him, just act like he's only a friend, and keep trying to convince yourself that he is. its really important to think before you say anything, dont just blurt it out. talk slowly and quietly so you wont say anything you will regret, or that will make you sound stupid or obnoxious. just try treating him like he's any other friend, and ask him questions about himself to get him talking, too. hope this works(:

Answer 7

its normal to be nervous around someone you like. i have some answers.  1. post a note on or in his locker that tells him how you feel, 2. this one is a little risky, go up to him & kiss him, 3. invite him somewhere to go as friends, but slowly turn it into a date, 4. when you talk to him, look him in the eye romantically, &/or 6. get a fake boyfriend to make him jealous.

Answer 8

well i think you should be yourself......and just talk to him.....write him a note or....if yooh have his number text him or call or do something to get his attention.....i get shy REALLY easily to!!!!......but good luck.....e-mail me sum [e-mail]

Answer 9

1st I would see if he likes you to and if he does then I think you two should have lunch together at school and talk about hanging out one weekend or something like that. And just try to tell yourself that you like him and that you know you want him to be your 1st bf so your going to make this work  

Answer 10

same with me. 15. but  i sucks knowingthat your crush/best friends knows u and also knows that you also like him. just try to relax. and everything will fall into place.

Answer 11

if you like him alot and he feels the same you should go for it he seems like a nice guy

Answer 12

Just be honest with him, "you know I get so nervous when I`m around cause I really like you". If he really likes sweet girls he will apreciate the honesty and will see this as "Ok so I like you a lot, it`s ok to ask me out now". he probbaly gets a little nervous around you too and needs a little push to make his move.  

Answer 13

That happens to me to i get loud, but if he likes you back then he wont care talk to his friends to see if he does  

Answer 14

Maybe you should sit down and break it to him what he makes you feel like. Just be straight forward and say that he makes you feel this way and it's hard to control yourself when you're around him. And if he's as sweet as you made him out to be, then he'll be understanding and talk to you about it. Afterwards, you should feel better since it's off your shoulders. Things become easier when you let it all out.

Try it.

Hope this helps.

Good Luck!!

Answer 15

well if he knows that you like him, have one of ur friends ask him what he thinks about you..and see what he has to say...and for the being nervous thing, remember that you shuldnt act like anyone but urself cuz guys dont wanna see someone that you arent..its not fair to him and if u really like him then you shuld let him see the real you so he dont think you are being fake or something...so good luck

Answer 16

if i was in this situation, i would honestly try to figure out if he likes me too.

haha i know that sounds stupid, but it's true. so i guess try to find out if he likes you too. and if he does, then obviously like get closer with him and ask him to hang out after school or to meet him at the football game or something.

if he doesn't, then obviously like don't push it. maybe he'll like change his mind or something, but i would back off.

and if you don't find out if he likes you or not, then i would just take your flirting up a notch and see if you notices and flirts back and like backs away. cause if you flirt more or are more serious and girly around him, and it seems to turn him off and make him uncomfortable, then it might not be right.

hope i helped,

k<3.

Answer 17

write him a love note explaining that he makes you all nervous that you dont know how to act around him, but that if he were to give you a shot then you would love to show him how you really are and how much he means to you.

Answer 18

Honey , the only advice I can give is to be yourself and he should like you enough for that. Also, if you are being yourself you will naturally be less nervous.... Good luck sweetie!

Answer 19

Stop trying to predict what will happen in the future.Things will work out the way they are supposed to if you stay yourself and not manipulate the situation

Answer 20

I get really stupid around guys that I like also but know that im older I have found a trick I find a flaw on them and concentrate on it that way Im not so nervous.

Answer 21

wow sounds just like me lol.

why would you want to be shy around him?

just act like yourself and you'll be fine.

keep doing what you're doing because it seems to be working.

and it's ok to be nervous around him.

just try not to think about it too much and

stay calm.

Answer 22

Be yourself. You like him, you have been friends for a good while, there is a chance that he returns your feelings.  If he thinks you have a different personality when you are around him from your true personality, the only way to counter-act that is making conscious effort to put forth the true you when around him. In short, be yourself.

As how to not be nervous: there is no short, clean cut answer. Look for any hints that he returns your feelings; knowing that he is on the same page as you are will help with the anxiety. Nervousness is caused in large part by not knowing a situation; familiarize yourself with where he thinks you two are as far as a relationship goes is the best bet.

But in the end, being nervous is part of being human. The only way to get around it is by ignoring it and taking the dive.

Answer 23

you gotta be more of yourself and have confidence. You can be flirty with him and let him you are interested. Dont be afraid to make the move and ask him out

Answer 24

i always get nervous around guys that i like. most of the time i find someone i really like who doesn't like me back. i try to get their attention...show that i care. if they are caring enough and really start to like you they will show it. just wait my friend, things will work out how they are meant to be. whether you end up dating the boy or not, things will work out. try not to be nervous though. i think everyone gets a little nervous but don't be. act like yourself around this person and if he really likes you for who you truly are, he will ask you out. (my opinion is to wait for the guy to ask you out instead of u asking them out to know that they truly care...but do tell them you like them.)

well good luck ...hope this helps my friend. =]

**Hannah** - mAkInG tHe WoRlD a BeTtEr PlAcE =]