We just had a baby, about 2.5 months ago, and when we started trying for her, my husband said that he was done after one more.
He says that even though she is a good baby, he is exhausted from the demands of newborn life, and so he really can't see having any more kids.
He wants to get a vasectomy just to seal the deal. I however feel completely different, and would really like just one more.
I am not sure what to do, I feel like I will be unhappy forever if I know that there is absolutely no chance of having another baby. When I talk to him about it, he tells me that if we have an "accident" then he will feel like he wouldn't care as much about the child as he does for our current children, and so it wouldn't be fair to them.
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