I want him, but my parents won't let me have him?

Question

Okay, so this guy, after almost 10 YEARS, and I decided we like each other. We flirt at football games and all. He supports me by showing up to the games, my school plays and all this stuff. I am so frustrated though because he is about to turn 18 and my parents used to think he was the bomb because he was going to join the marines and all this other stuff. He didn't do the marines, and my parents think he will rape me. But I know he wouldn't violate me in such a manner. He respects me and is very religious. Well, turns out he stayed for me, but I unexpectedly had to get out of band, but I still support them. He got me a field pass so I could do more to help and all, but now it's like what do I do next? Do I follow my heart? Or do I tell him what my parents told me?( which is to say good-bye basically) ...So confused. I really really really think he is the one. It feels like I can't say good-bye or get over him. Ever since my parents told me I can't even see him, my world just seems out of order. I want him, I know I do. He's all I find myself thinking about.

Answer 1

Your parents are right.. you are wrong.....  of course you know this already but just don't wanna face the music..... its easier to be rebellious that to choose the right thing to do...

Answer 2

you are so dumb. you are only 18 and you want to throw your life away for some relationship. listen to your parents little one

Answer 3

Listen to your parents.  At least until you turn 18 or move out.  Which ever happens first.  If you do live w/ your parents you have to obey their wishes.  I would think that your parents would want the best for you.  You are going to feel that feeling more than once in your lifetime.  Good Luck!! It's not the end of the world. Read a book.  

Answer 4

well

your really in love

tell your parents how you really feel and that he would never to such a thing to you... then tell him what your parents told you but also say that you really really really really like him and don't want to say goodbye.. and then go on from there.. if your parents know how you feel and he knows how they feel then.. hopefully you guys can come to an agreement.. like can't stay out past 11pm or stuff like that.. set some bunderies that both him and your parents can understand

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