I want him back......

Question

...I don't even think we should've split up in the first place (was only three weeks ago) and now he's suggesting we meet next week for a 'catch up' - do I go and risk being upset or do I leave it a while longer until I'm over him?

Answer 1

Honey, this depends on why you two broke up. Is it something that could have been fixed but yall just got outof hand or was it something you REALLY CAN'T take him back for?

Think for yourself & think of all the reasons why you shouldn't get back with him, then think of all the plus' in your relationship. Don't just jump into it because you're missing him - everything happens for a reason.

Answer 2

go meet up with him cos chances r if he wants to meet up he wants to get back with u

Answer 3

Meet him. He might be ready to explain the reasons that you broke up and you'll get some closure if nothing else.

He ISN'T going to get back with you. If he was, he would have wanted to meet sooner than next week.

If he doesn't acknowledge your hurt and confusion, don't play along or you won't get closure. You'll come away feeling stupid and used.

Good luck x

Answer 4

well in my experience i think you should get in there and try and sort the problem out maybe you both want different things and you need to talk to each other to iron these issues out if you really care for each other you will get there trust me ( good luck)

Answer 5

If you don't go you will never know what was going to happen and that could haunt you for a long time to come. Go on - do it and have a good time :-)

Answer 6

I don't think anyone can help you on here...but I can recommend this book for you if you want.

Answer 7

you never know. in the long run.. after all the "meeting up"

you could eventually decide to get back together! x