I want leave my boyfriend he is physically abusive, 3x he hit me,HOW TO LEAVE HIM ?

Question

how to leave him and not let him turn against me, he always threatens me when we get into an argument, when he slapped me the day before yesterday, he is still begging for forgiveness, and another last last chance, i dint know what to do??? I'm afraid of him since he started abusing me , i fear him most of the times, i feel like I'm walking on eggshells all the time, when we got together before two years,it wasn't like that,,,, btw girls,,,I'm going to call him in a couple of hours, so HELP IS NEEDED ASAP....

thanks for the help,

God bless all,

:-)

Answer 1

I married an abuser. Before we married he was so kind and sweet but after marriage it all changed. The beatings got worse and worse, I never knew what would set him off. Finally I was nearly killed because I turned the heat up I had to have my head stapled back together.

I got ashamed as my arms stayed so bruised. He choked me also and when that happens it is just a matter of time until you are choked to death. I came close. Sometimes they kill you different ways. Get away from this abuser fast as you can. Don't let him make apologies

as that is the honeymoon stage and then it happens again and again.They rob you of your self esteem.

Answer 2

have him arrested and get a restraining order. or find someone like myself that would "talk" to him and "convince" him to stay away. hes a coward and a lowlife !

Answer 3

Easy! Break up. Tell him to **** off. File a restraining order on him. Move on. My girlfriends friend had the same problem. She told me that she attracted to that type of pain and that's what prevented her from calling it quits. I don't know if that's the same case with you but I think u should take my advice regardless. GUYS SHOULDN'T HIT GIRLS!

Answer 4

never meet him again. people who cant show restraint have no respect to give. but if you want to risk it, ask him if he realizes he has a problem, and ask him if he wants to fix it. if he raises his voice, hang up never  involve him again. unless he has easy access to you, then call the police, tell your parents, tell his parents. personally, i would drop it right now and never talk to or see him again. he is very wrong and probably cant change.

Answer 5

I have been here. I went through it for 4 years. You are doing a very smart thing for leaving now...because trust me the longer you stay the harder it gets.

Tell him that it would be best for the both of you to separate...and move on with your lives. Because your personalities seem not to mesh well.

One thing that you have to realize and stick with is that once you leave him...you have to stay away from him as much as possible. The thing about abusive men is that they are so manipulative...that is how they convince us to keep coming back and back back....but things always will be the same...if he hits you now he will hit you years from now. Think about yourself girl and protect yourself....

Good luck and stay safe with whatever you do

Answer 6

Well 3 years ago my sister went thur the same thing you are going thur.you need to go to the police station and have them take a report on this issue because no women needs to go thur this at all.If says he will never do it again he is lieing to you so  you need to go stay with friends or family until until you go to the police station,because the next time he may kill you or really hurt you i'm going to pray for you .god bless.....