I want more s*x than my husband... is this normal...?

Question

I've suddenly been feeling very sexual and constantly thinking about s*x all the time. I'm not sure if its a side affect to recently stopping contraception medication, but although my husband enjoys it, he's not creative enough for me. i feel guilty but i'm constantly thinking of other men and of ways to get more attention. i wish he was more spontaneous and flirtatious with me but he doesn't show as much interest.... how can i get him to take more notice? he's not into s**y lingerie nor showing much affection in public.

Answer 1

when you figure it out, please let me know! ive been thinking about finding someone who can.

Answer 2

sounds like u need to talk to him tell him how u feel and ask him if there is anything that u could do or he too spice it up trust me I'm in my thirties and been dating this guy for over 2yrs but the s*x is very hot.  Good luck!!

Answer 3

Very normal. That's why 2 out of three marriages end in divorce. That's why someone cheats.'that's why there's trouble in most relationships. He can't help it because his s*x drive is lower then yours, and you can't help it because your's is higher then his.. But how long can things stay as they are?

Answer 4

Sure glad he doesn't wear his s**y lingerie in public. Seriously though you need to talk to him about these things. You also need to get other men off your mind. That's nothing more than the road to ruin.  

Answer 5

talk to him about this or your frustration will grow. don't be shy to be direct about it. most husbands want to please their wives. tell him you want to try different things to spice up your marriage and ask him what he wants too. do not neglect this because if you are already thinking of other men...not a good direction to go in...

Answer 6

Talk to him about it and tell him how important is it for you.  

Answer 7

dont worry its normal im the same

Answer 8

Yes it is normal.  People's s*x drive isn't always the same.  

Tell him how you feel, because he won't know how you feel unless you talk to him about it.

Also be understanding, if he's in a high stress job that can have an effect on his s*x drive as well.  If he's stressed out a lot, he may feel too tired for s*x.

Answer 9

tell him that iam sure you dont want to cheat on him

Answer 10

If you figure it out can you let me know, my wife couldn't be bothered, tried last night, really pulled out the stops all day, when it comes to being 'intimate' she just lays there and expect me to do it all...  Talk to him about it, it can only help.