I want my brother to change, but when he does i feel bad?

Question

i am always really mad at my brother. i cant even sit next to him, like i feel weird and unconformable. He is always copying me, so i make him change, when he does i feel guilty. Does any one have some advice?

Answer 1

My sister beat me up so... and she hardly felt bad haha!!! But you're doing the right thing. If he's pissing you off you have to let him know, or you could just let it go and show him that it doesn't bother you. In my psychology course they said that if you ignore more than likely the person annoying you will stop becuase they know it doesn't bother you.

good luck!

Answer 2

Yes nick O has given you the right advice. Just remember that you don't have to bother with siblings your whole life. They are a nuisance but you have to cope with them for a few years and then never bother seeing them again. Remember the end is in sight.

Answer 3

Talk to him, and find a way to make if feel like it wasn't necessarily your fault. talk to your own conscience.