I want my ex back? people help me heartbroken and sick?

Question

i recently lost my ex 2weeks ago. i lied to her to many time. honestlty i can say that it will never happen again. becuase i realized shes the one i want o spend the rest of my life with. ive told her this and let her how i feel and that it could never happen again. her reply is ive heard that all before. althought i am totally serious it would never happen again. what can i do people i really need this women in my life and ill never lie to her again. we have a kid together also

Answer 1

you need to prove to her it will neva happen again give her some time n u can work ur way slowly into getting her back but u have alot of proving to do go see ur kid often so u can see her also invite them to the park n u guys can talk it out invite her to a dinner do things like this and u can prove urself to her.

Answer 2

when there is a break up with kids involved its hard to let go. If you have done this before it will take a long time for her to forgive you. i to was in a relationship like this only i was the victim. my ex cheated and lied allot but when i finally left he couldn't let go, and still calls me everyday and its been a year..... the best advice i could say for you is to prove you mean it, be there for her and your child. especially your child. show her you are serious about you to by not giving up on her and get it out there that you love her. I'm sure she still loves you.

Answer 3

I;ve been in the same situation before. Shes hurt. Theres nothing you can do that you havnt done already. People on here are proably gonna tell you to *** kiss with the roses and all the presents. That could make her feel better but at the end of the day its not gonna take the pain away. Its all on her if she wants to get back with you or not, at this point its looking like a huge no. She could change her mind. Just let her breathe and keep in touch with your kid. That prob means the most to her....

Answer 4

Sometimes it takes a broken heart to make you realize the error of your ways.  I left my ex 7 years ago and he still wants to get back together even though i am engaged and getting married in 7 months.  He hurt me so badly with his lies that no matter how much he has changed i would never be able to trust him again.  The only advice that i can give you is to hope that she will (at minimum) be friends with you.  If you push a relationship again it may only push her farther away and you will lose everything.