I want my father to marry me and my fiance..?

Question

the only thing is I dont know how to ask him, He is always busy, I want my father to marry us because we can do it at my church for next to nothing, it would save a bunch of money, and because its somewhere familiar, where I feel comfortable. My father married my sister and her ex husband..How should I talk to my dad about it? He said after they divorced that he isn't marrying anyone else?

Answer 1

Sounds like money is the motivation to his performing the ceremony.  Why not ask him to refer another pastor to perform the ceremony at your church so that your father can walk you down the aisle?

Word the request correctly and you might not even need to pay the pastor who does the deed.

Good luck and congrats.

Answer 2

marry you with your father is that sickening the same blood. and the church.     Can your church allowed that.

if your father marry your sister.  you can stop abusing you.  Do not ask your father for a blessing.  just go away  away from your family.

and Marry your Fiance

Answer 3

im sure he would. why would he choose favorites and marry your sister and not you? if he says he wont, then he is a bad father and you dont want him to do it anyways.

Answer 4

sit with ur father and tell him politely that if ur sis and her hubby didnot turn good for each other, that doesnot mean that ur dad should make other children suffer becozz of them.....make him realise that its his duty to marry u cozz he's ur father......tell him that u need to start a new life with his support and blessings....

Answer 5

Just talk to him. Tell him that it is important to you, and what it would mean to you. That his presence at your sister's wedding had nothing to do with the divorce. I'm sure that if you were honest with him, he would do it. I think it would be a beautiful gesture for you father to be such a big part of your special day. good luck!

Answer 6

Awesome- I've got my mom's BF, who's like a dad to me, performing our wedding (we got him ordained online...)  Anyway, I'm sure your dad was just hurt and sad at the time of your sister's divorce and that's why he said he'd never marry anyone again.  He was probably worried that he somehow put a curse on their marriage or something funny like that.  When you're a minister, you probably want a high success rate for the marriages you perform.  Anyway, just approach him when he's not busy, like if you go out for a meal together or something, and say, "Dad, I know you said you'd never marry anyone else again, but I can't imagine anyone else I'd rather have up there with me, pronouncing us husband and wife.  Would you reconsider and perform our wedding?"  How can a dad say no to that???

Answer 7

we face the same condition. I dont want to say it as a 'problem' though coz it will be a problem then. Your life is your choice, not you father or anyone else. it's not ur mistake if ur sister got divorce and you shouldn't have to carry all her barrier. so, just take another 'father' then if he doesnt want to take his part as a 'father'.