I want my opinions to be taken in consideration more often.?

Question

I'm very outgoing and talkative but people don't take my proposals in consideration as often as i wished even though they answer whatever problem there is.

I wished i had some tips to get more noticed around friends and family.

Answer 1

Maybe they don't recognize your input because they feel it is uninformed. Are you offering real insight into discussions or just parroting things you've heard others say. Most people can spot a phony. If you are just trying to get noticed then you are like the little kid that gets in trouble all the time just to get attention. No attention at all is better than being laughed at or ignored for acting a fool. Are you thinking through your responses or just blurting out the first thing that comes to mind.

Best advice is to be who you really are and don't try to act like someone you're not. At least then you'll know that someone is accepting you for who you really are.

Answer 2

you may be too vocal, remember that commercial, "if you want to get someones attention, whisper", there is something to that just as there is something to not being heard brecause of your "much speaking".  maybe if you choose your timing better, reduce the talk, a lot, you may be listened to more, but it will take time.  a lot of very average people are mistaken for being very intelligent just because they are quiet, so just think if you are intelligent, and quiet, except for the proper moments how intelligent they will think you are.

Answer 3

I don't want to hurt your feelings but if your outgoing and talkative maybe you need to be a little more quiet and listen. People who listen usually have the best answers and with less talk and a few sound answers people may notice you more.

Answer 4

The only way is to show them what you are capable of. Instead of waiting for their approval or acknowledgment, just move forward. They will start to see you as a "take charge" person eventually because of it.