I want only men to answer this question please...My husband looks at teen p**n.. Is he sick??

Question

I'm 32 and he is 31. We have s*x everyday. I look very young (people say I look 22 years old) and always have young men trying to hit on me. My husband sells p**n to his cousins and friends. He looks at all kinds of girls (white, Spanish, Chinese, Russian, Brazillian etc.) But once in a while he looks at teen p**n. He says they're over 18 and says I'm overreacting. Am I overreacting or is he a sick man?? Is he with me because maybe I look like a girl??...I don't have a problem w/him looking at p**n just teen p**n that bothers me...my husband is a great man...(hard working, always home, doesn't do drugs, doesn't go out drinking,always helping out w/chores and cars) but I don't know if I should be worried??

Answer 1

its normal, its just something that turns him on, and those girls are all over the age of 18, because then it would be very illegal!  I'm sure he loves you because your hot and your personalities click, you looking young is prolly only a plus, not a reason he would choose you over anything else!  He's not sick, everyone has their fantasies..tell him why it bothers you tho.

Answer 2

  Let's see, you both look at p**n, you say he's a great guy, and you have s*x with him every day I'd say both of you are extremely lucky and live in a little paradise all of your own. Congratulations.

Answer 3

why ask just men? they stick together they dont see anything wrong with it

Answer 4

Look at the sites he's looking at. On the home page, usually way down on the bottom, there'll be something about a usc 2257 record keeping compliance statement. These are more or less legal sites that keep the records and verify their model/actors age. Any site with this on it, will have models that are 18 and over.(At least by the documentation they submit.) If a site doesn't have any reference to this, you're playing with having your name on that s*x offender registry.

Answer 5

Why ever would you ask only men to answer this question? Do you think men are the only ones who could possibly know if looking at teenage p**n is sick or if it is OK?

If he were single, and for sure the girls were at least eighteen, I would say there isn't anything wrong with that.

However, he is married, and there isn't any sure way of knowing if all of these teenagers are at least eighteen. Girls as young as thirteen, with well applied  makeup and clothing these days can look at least eighteen. Heck, girls as young as seven can look fourteen! Just look at the babies put into "beauty pageants" and see for yourself.

The fact he is married means he is disrespecting his wife. Which is you. He should not be looking at other women, clothed or naked, in a way you can see he is doing it. All men, women too, see a very attractive person walking by and can't help but look. It is natural for the human eye to be drawn to beauty, it just is. However, to openly gawk at another person while in the presence of your spouse is, in my opinion, low and crass, and disrespectful in extreme. It is one thing to dart a quick glance when you just can't help it, and another to let your tongue hang out publicly. In front of any one single person is public.

He is in the wrong here, and you know it, or you wouldn't have asked this question. If you can ask the question you know deep down it is wrong. If it offends you it is wrong, because you are his wife. If something you did offended him, he would attempt to put a stop to it right quick, now wouldn't he? It wouldn't matter if you were wrong or right, if he didn't like it he would say so and work hard to get you to stop, simply because he is your husband and you should treat him a certain way in honor of that standing.

There is a double standard in our world, always has been and maybe always will be. This doesn't mean we must stand for it. The longer we stand for it the longer it will exist. If you do not like what he is doing, then you need to put your foot down. At the very least he can do this out of your presence and do his level best to keep it away from you!

It is important for spouses to treat each other with respect. The bottom line is your husband isn't doing that. I encourage you to sit down with him and discuss how you feel and what you expect from him in regards to this issue. There is a lot of information online on fighting fair. Every couple fights, but how they fight will determine whether or not they make it long term. Remember, fifty percent of all marriages last a lifetime.

http://members.aol.com/AngriesOut/fairfi...

Good luck and may your marriage be in that fifty percent. Please have a nice day.

Answer 6

I do not know how to put that but he may be the predator next door as seen on TV.

Answer 7

Only if they are 12 years old.  Normal is a setting on the dish washer.  He is about average for a guy still breathing.

Answer 8

nooo he is just normal every man wants to see ppl get it on it is normal do not worry bout it if it gets to a habit then u might ewant to tell him to stop but once in a while it is natural he needs action

Answer 9

h**l yeah!!

He is crafty.

He is looking at teen p**n because they are legally of age.

But they look like children.

Hence, in his twisted mine he is viewing child p**n.

Have a long talk with da boy, he needs help.

Peace

Answer 10

No it's a normal thing :)

Answer 11

I wouldn't say it's necessarily "sick" since he's just looking at young-looking women...but it sounds risky and maybe even illegal if the women really are under 18. He might like you because you look younger...I wouldn't be too worried about that part though, unless he plans to dump you when you start to age.

This is a tricky one because while he may be a "good man," as you say, I don't think he's using very good judgment. If he really is looking at women that are not "legal," he could get in VERY big trouble. Do you want to risk being with someone who could be considered a pedophile? I couldn't allow it...I'd have to break up. It's up to you but it sounds like you are in dangerous territory!

Good luck!

Answer 12

i dont think hes sick at all. now if he was to start looking at kids or people under age, then there might be something wrong. You guys are pretty young also. Me personally if he was old enough to be somebodys grandfather, then I would find that creepy. But to me, as long as the people are old enough and he's not hurting anyone I wouldnt trip they're tons of other things to be worried about.

Answer 13

Your husband isn't doing anything wrong. He is looking at p**n that is legel. They say young people do more in s*x. Maybe he is looking at that to learn something new to teach you.

Answer 14

yep