I want to be a single mum?

Question

How can I achieve this without having a one nightstand? Can you order sperm in the UK?

Answer 1

Why would you CHOOSE to be a single Mom?! It's not always easy, you know... and I have a Fiance to help out. I love my Daughter more than life, but it's not ALWAYS rainbows and butterflies.

Answer 2

Don't go bringing a child into this world the way you're planning it as they are not toys.

Answer 3

That isn't fair on the child living without a dad but that's up to you ,you can find a donor.How are you going to support yourself and the baby ? it's going to be difficult on your own or even with a partner the best option is to wait a find a man and start a family together ;)

Answer 4

You have NO idea how difficult parenting is,EVEN with a partner!

Answer 5

I want to too, but I'm a bloke, quite fancy a free council house and loads of welfare, good luck with your quest, if you need some sperm call me...

Answer 6

Don't do it. You are putting yor desires ahead of the needs of your potential child.

Answer 7

http://www.londonwomensclinic.com/

its your choice no one elses good luck ;D

Answer 8

im 19 and a single mum.. even though i hav the help of my rents now and again it is still a 24 hour job.. no break.. so tink bout it!! u hav to giv up ur life to take care of another.. dnt just hav a kid cos u wna b a single mum n then just hire a nanny.. its not as easy as dat..

Answer 9

question    would you like it if you had only one parent

Answer 10

Choosing to be a single mom is your choice and no one else's. I am 26 years old, just haven't met the right man, have a lucrative job that allows me to be home 5 days a week, have a large (excited!) extended family, etc.  It was the perfect time for me to have a baby. So I did a lot of research as I didn't want a one night stand just to achieve my goal.  I live in the US, and there are 26 sperm banks here.  Some have the choice to send sperm to either the doctor you will use for IVF or to your own home for artificial insemination. I know that some of the banks I researched will ship internationally.

Please realize that this is NOT a cheap option, but a safe one.  Choose a bank based on the genetic and other tests they run, whether they abide by medical rules, etc.  Don't make this decision lightly. And remember that it MAY take more than one time to work.  You'll be introduced into the world of ovulation monitoring, basal cell temperature, etc.

I do have to say it is worth it though! I am currently 37 weeks with my first child (a girl), and looking forward to meeting her soon.  Take some time on the Internet and look for sperm banks in the UK.  Good luck!

Answer 11

My dear "single-Lady"....

Well.... let me put it like this ...and to all those people, who advise you to provide "father & mother" to a child : WHO guarantees you, that a couple stays..."together"???? NO ONE ! Just look at the divorce statistics !!!! So that's definately   N O T  a criteria ..."to provide a "father"...-because even "dedicated" fathers....can LEAVE...one day -for whatever reason- !!!

The criteria which is most important is : Can you provide your child a (financially) secure & loving environment ??? Are you, by yourself ABLE to dedicate 24 hrs. a day ...each & every day to this child??? Can you afford to present your child with all its NEEDS, pay for a college-education, a car after aquiring licence, etc., etc.,----- When you can answer all these "items" with a clear :  YES !!! Oki-doki...then go ahead ! More power to you ! I'm sure, the question of the "sperm" is the least "problem" !!! I know "a few" pretty decent & nice guys in the UK...-just get in touch with me..- smile !! No, but seriously... you can easily "find" a donator !!!

Wish you all the best for the future &  may your wish come true ! Greetings from Germany... Annette***

Answer 12

If you feel ready for a child and you have not met a decent bloke in time then yeah order it, not sure if the uk does it but you couldn search around on the site but wouldn't it be easier to do a one night stand? f~*ked up we sound but every man is a cheater no matter how good their relationship seems to the outside world!

I have a BABY 6months and everyone comments on how HAPPY  and content she is! It's because I wanted her and shes very much loved by me! I may be a single parent but

I know messed up kids in two parent households where the parents argue and don't love each other, well at least I can asure my child she won't be getting any of that.

Answer 13

seriously. being a mum is hard enough but being a single parent is sometimes the most lonely place u can be.

Answer 14

Your not right. You should want your kid to have 2 parents. U dont need a kid.