I want to be his everything.?

Question

how can it be that i love him so much, when all he ever does is hurt me?

i really need help i don't know what to do.

please help me!

Answer 1

YOu cant love somebody if theyre hurting you. W

Why love somebody if they make you feel pain?

My Advice?

Just get over it. Thats what i did.

It may sound harder than it is, but it really isnt.

The whole, "love is unbreakable" and stuff is unrealistic.

It really is and everyone knows it. Romeo and Juliet is never going to happen.

Pretty soon, you'll be over it and somebody new will come into your life. It will be much better

Answer 2

You think you cant do better? Afraid of being alone? You don't know what love is...  I am not trying to be harsh, trust me, I married a abusive man. I thought i couldn't do better.  I divorced him years ago and now i know what love is. Don't let him hurt you. Emotionally or physically!

Answer 3

As they say, love is blind.  Many woman let men hurt them in many ways because they will take the hurt just to hang on to him.  This isn't a real relationship at all.  Alot of people have gone through what you are going through and sometimes it takes so long to get out of the relationship.  Do not wait because it may get worse for you.  Hurt is hurt.  Wounds don't heal from abusive relationships.  He is taking you for granted or has other issues that he is not addressing and taking it out on you.  He either should get help with his issues or be man enough to leave you so that you can heal and go on with your life.  Why is he staying with you anyway?  What is it that he wants from you?  Ask yourself those questions.  If he wants nothing from you but to boss you around then he is feeling good doing it.  Get out before it is too late.

Answer 4

If this person is hurting you...then you shouldnt want to be their everything.  Save that energy for somebody who wants to be your everything

Answer 5

it is human nature. there is nothing anyone can tell you that would be the right answer. the only person that can decide what you want is you. make a list of the positives and negatives of why you would stay or not stay with him. maybe when you see the reason on paper you will open your eyes to the right answer. if loving him is the only reason that you would stay with him then that will never be enough to make a relationship last.

Answer 6

You can't make  him care about you,  if your not what he wants.

Answer 7

love yourself first - dont let anyone hurt you and put up with it

dont be anyones door mat

be the door - shut in his face till he knocks nicely