I want to be more FLIRTY... less pouty!?

Question

How do i work on being FLIRTY... and less SURLY. I am a woman, 33... and a heavy thinker. therefore, i always appear like the world is coming to an end...but i want to be more flirty, child-like, and curious... what can i do??

Answer 1

Ask light hearted questions, and look the part. Makeup and clothes that are feminine will help you feel young and flirty.The most important thing is that you think innocent, flirty, and childlike. Its really a grove thing that you get into the cute glances and witty banter all come naturally once you get in the mind set.

Answer 2

be who you are  

Answer 3

clear you're mind of all the doubts. speak with you're peer group (or someone random) and let everything out, then leave the intellectual happy woman to come out during dating.

Answer 4

Go after funny people. That will automatically put you at ease. Playfully tease them. Touch them briefly, non-sexually on the biceps. Good excuses are when they make you laugh or when you have some thing fun to tell them. Play with your hair. Mirror their body language. Respectfully disagree, but don't engage in arguments. Come to the table with having previously thought positive thoughts. Play silly games like thumb wrestling. If you want to see that person again, when you say "bye" make your voice high pitched, airy, and drawn out while smiling and making eye contact. It's not being phony. You will become what you practice. I had a similar problem in the past. Since I have a serious intellectual side I'd try to use that to get women. Never worked, was always baffled. When I switched to funny and teasing, I've had a lot fun and success. BTW, if you're cute and live in NYC, you can practice on me, I am a comedian.