I want to be straight!

Question

I want to be straight, but when I see a girl I don't seem to get excited or aroused. I need some way for this to happen, I don't want to be g*y! Don't tell me anything about "living with it" I want a good answer.

Answer 1

first off i want to commend you for this bold and awesome question...it is very adult of you to to want this help, so good for u:)    now to answer your question to the best of my ability....how long have you been fighting this?...if you been fight this urge for a long time, continue to fight it...it's a spirit and it wants you, but continue to say to yourself out loud what you want continue to denounce those urges and fantasy's and if your into prayer or if you pray, continue to pray....sorry there no magic pill to take, this is going to take a fight and a fight you can win......this is a fight that i fought and won and continue to win on a every now and again time period, something will try to trigger your thought and you just have to slap it down and love the thing you want to love (the opposite s*x) and you'll be fine cause deep down your straight.

Answer 2

well man when I see a nice girl I first look at her booty and immediately  I get excited! you should imagine yourself kissing and caressing hey nice and soft womanly body! you know gaze into her eyes! and let her know you like her! maybe some ginseng or horny goat weed well get you juices flowing! or maybe once you get intimate with a girl, that's all the advise I can give you man.

Answer 3

Sexuality can't be changed. If you're g*y, you're g*y. Unless you want to pretend you're straight for years, knock some random girl up, marry her, live with an unbearable guilt about it all and die unhappy.

Answer 4

ask yourself are you a peter puffer? can you suck a golf ball through a garden hose? go to a nudity site and jerk your chicken, i bet you'll like it....

Answer 5

You have to make a relationship with a girl and check out if you are g*y or not. But if you are already g*y there's no way to be straight.

Answer 6

I commend you for your courage.  You do not have to be g*y at all.  Maybe the right girl has not walked by for you to jump through hoops.  Only you can answer if you are attracted to guys.  When a guy walks by, do you get excited?  If this doesn't happen, how do you know you are g*y? If you are attracted to opposite s*x, then you would know.  

If you do not want to be this way, consult a psychiatrist, about your concern.  This is an internal fight that you can win.  Pray without ceasing, that the desire of your heart be granted.  Some say you do not choose this (g*y) way of life, it chooses you.  However, God gives us all free will, and you can change this if you so desire. Good luck.

Answer 7

Would you seriously rather live your life forcing yourself to be straight, than to enjoy your life as g*y? I know it is not the answer you are looking for, but there is nothing you can do about it! Just be happy! <3

Answer 8

thing take time..look at all girls that are pretty that you think looks good. You can look at books where they show naked body of girls/women and see if that help..if you see a naked girl in a book ..study it and look at the who body. Here is another idea..find a book on naked guys and have both books open in private and look at them both and see if you have feeling for either. Now if someone say your guy and you can't change that..that is so not true. I knew a guy who was very straight for many years and then got sick of girls..and when the other way..it depend on your hormone's. some time boy end up with the female jean a bit more making them feel like a women and the same thing for guys. there are ones that make you feel for guys or feel for girls only..There are lot of guys out there that use to be guy and now are straight and Happy married with kids. So people can give you mixed ideas. So get the book thing and see what make you feel on either side..

Answer 9

How long has it been this way.  I had a friend that was molested when he was a child and has a fear of being intimate.  But it doesn't make him g*y...

Answer 10

if you are serious about it i would strongly recommend psychiatric help.a good psychologist can help you very much.

Good luck

Answer 11

you can't change your sexual orientation, i'm afraid. there are many g*y support groups you can join, and i reccomend u do so.  and if u like guys, i say: WHAT THE HECK!!!!!GO FOR IT, BABY!!!!!!

Answer 12

the good answer is live with it

u cant force urslef to be straight

Answer 13

maybe you just haven't found the one? Or you can always find a tomboy. There are boyish but are still girls. Perfect for you since you like guys

Answer 14

are you sexually attracted to men?

because you might not be g*y, you just might not be feeling anything about girls at the moment, or the ones youve seen havent been your type, etc

maybe you are attracted to different races than what you are surrounded by?

but if you are g*y, then i feel for you...

its so hard when you are something that you dont like but you cant change it

i wish i knew of something to help you change but i truly dont think you can change your sexuality...its in-built into your genes

probly the worst thing you can do is trying to force youself to date girls, because youll end up breaking their hearts,

and if you get married youll be living a lie, and thats not fair for you or your wife and kids

my only advice would be try to find some positive aspects about being g*y, e.g. like some famous homosexual people who you look up to, etc

you might find that as time goes on, you have a greater acceptance of homosexuality and what it is to be homosexual.

Hope dis helped and good luck with it:)

Answer 15

Ok, but have you examined the possibility that men don't attract you either? You could be asexual.