I want to be with someone who I feel I "complete" and who I feel "completes" me!!?

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Is that too much to ask?! I don't look for perfection btw. Yes they have to meet my idea of good looking and they must be smart and very entertaining and fun but that's all - hehehe

When I don't see it I put him in FRIEND spot and move on. Seems like the right thing to do not to waste their time or end up hurting their feelings.

Well...how is it that I am the one who ends up being sad? :-/

WT Frig am I doing wrong here?

I am a Sadge with a Leo Moon and a Gemini Ascendant (I think my Sadge with Gemini Ascendant always has me thinking there is greener pastures ahead) waaaaaaa!!!

Answer 1

Haha...thinNtall...I am the opposite. I don't have an ideal partner based on looks and personality. I just listen to my heart. You have too much air and fire, haha.

I don't want someone who 'completes' me. I want to be whole as a person, and meet someone else who is also whole as a person, and have the two of us join together to make two whole, but loving people. When the time comes, I will meet that person, but I am in no rush.

You have love on your mind today, eh? : )

Edit: Sorry thinNtall, I didn't mean to misinterpret what you said. I hope I didn't offend you. I like being friends first as well. I think it's important to get to know someone first without the pressure and awkwardness of 'dating' which is really more like an interview....I still say that if you just wait for the right person, things will happen naturally....ugh...love, too complicated. ;-p

Libra Sun, Cancer Moon, Libra Rising

Answer 2

LOL @ the waaaaaaaa!

Hey well, I hear you. I'm a very picky person and if that person don't look like they have what i'm looking for I also put them aside and keep moving. I have this idea in my head, of what my ideal mate is, the qualities they posess and the traits. When I meet someone and they don't have any of those or there arent a connection/spark I keep moving. Nothing is wrong with that hey.

I also want the same thing as you do. I want someone to complete me as well as them being completed by me. But its tough, never easy to find that special one. Some people get lucky, and right away they find their mates, others don't. They have to wait a little longer, search a little longer. I guess thats life.

But dont worry we all have our special time and a special person waiting for us ..that is what I believe. Just keep positive your not alone. Many people as well as myself want to be complete and have a mate who satisfies us. Love is great, the feeling is priceless. We all have our times.

:-*

Answer 3

I understand you. I am also a sag with gemini rising so most likely you have the sun in the 7th house. And having a leo moon as well......you want to be treated nicely and fairly and be Number One !

It takes time......and much effort.....the 7th house can be both a blessing and a pain.

I know it is a cliché..but try to find yourself happy with who you are first..and do not give a d**n...the rest will follow. Concentrate on yourself first, what makes you happy, etc. Try to focus on yourself and improve whatever areas you are not too happy with.

Sun in 7th house is never happy without some partner. It can bring lots of heartaches and headaches. When I decided that I did not want to have anybody and just be me.......I was the happiest, freedom, etc.

I know it is hard but I learnt by just being myself and liking myself...........I was free of all the drama, etc.

Sounds stupid but true : If you like yourself enough, you do not feel a need for someone else to fill a void......because thee is no void to begin with.

Answer 4

I like QR's reply. I can also understand the posters predicament - so many feel this way, you are not alone.

Astrologically speaking - if another person's natal horizon is within 1 degree orb of another person (in some philosohpies 2 degrees) they are kindred spirits or soul mates ;) Doesnt even mean they will get along all the time, but apparently they bonded in some way.

Example - Horizon is 16 degrees Leo for one person and 16 degrees Gemini for another.

But not all soul mates are romantic, correct? You can have more than one...a family member, co worker etc..

Anyways - wish you the best of luck

Answer 5

Why not complete yourself?  Two incomplete people equal a f*cked up relationship not one complete person.

And burn your copy of Jerry McGuire.  That is not life.