I want to come out to my dad.?

Question

I want to come out to my dad when we go to diner tonight. I have talked to my older brother and he thinks this is a good idea. He is also going to be there. How should I tell my dad that I'm g*y? What do I say?

Answer 1

say to him, dad I have something to tell you and I really hope that this doesn't affect how you feel about me or the way you treat me, I'm g*y.

Answer 2

Well dont do it now do it when you move out..

but if you want to tell him now

just tell him straight up

Dad im g*y..

h**l have more respect for you if you tell him like a man.

Answer 3

You need to just say it...Dont beat around the bush with him.....Just say dad , I am g*y.

Good Luck to you I hope all works out for you.....:)

Answer 4

tell him that ever since u were a kid u always felt different from every1 else. that u've always felt attracted to the same s*x and u have no idea why. but u do know that u love him and that you hope that he accepts u the way u r.

good luck!!!

Answer 5

Ok well if he has a bad temper i'd wait till the waitress cleared the table. Just say "Dad (sigh, look him in the eye gently) I'm g*y."

Answer 6

Just say "Dad, I'm g*y." Short, sweet, and to the point.

Answer 7

Get on a subject about g*y people & then tell him you're g*y.

Answer 8

Just say "Dad, it's not your fault that I am a total loser"

Answer 9

I think so,

it took me FO EVAA

to tell my dad, but once I did, I felt alot better you know?

he took it really hard....but still. The closet suckkksss.

Answer 10

i would enjoy a nice dinner with him. and after you've all eaten, manipulate the mood. and bring it up casually somehow, and wait until the conversation is in precisely the right spot. you should know, and if you don't then you will have to decide if it is. he'll most likely either leave, or ask you to leave, or something like that. but i'm just a kid, what the h**l do i know?:)