I want to commit suicide?

Question

I have been thinking about taking my life lately. For some reason, I have always been thinking about how my parents and my wife would suffer after i die - but i am no longer filled with guilt after having these thoughts.

With all the failed dreams in this life, I want to start new - may be after going through h**l for a million billion years, i would be born again in a home where i would not have a miserable life.

Answer 1

Well, it depends on whats going to happen when you die.  Will you go to heaven and do what you want, in your case start your life again and make better choices, or will you be stuck in limbo or go to h**l?

No living being knows the answer, but if you want to know, then there's only one way to find out...

Of course, IMO, committing suicide is the p***y way out and your soul is going to suffer forever.  Why don't you try helping the world by doing something good that's risky.  That why, if you die, at least you have tried or even benefited society.

Answer 2

alright you might throw everything im about to say right out the window but im going to try.. alright the word of god tells us that if we die without him we will be in the lake of fire for iternity! you will not be born again friend .. i care for you man and i dont want that to happen to you .. [e-mail]       talk to me..  

Answer 3

There was also a time in my life when I wanted to commit suicide. I did not even think anyone else would suffer because I thought no one loved me. I would make plans in my head, imagine how people woudl react, everything. I hated myself, my life and I wanted everything to end.

Here I am now, two years later, and my perspective has changed completely. I am optimistic, and I love my life and everything it can offer. I have never been to therapy, and I did not tell anyone about my suicidal thoughts untill a while after they had stopped.

God helped me through a time where I wanted to comit suicide, to here. I never understood why He would let me suffer, but now I realize its because that experience has made me a better person. It has drawn me closer to Him and others. So it is your choice to seek God out or not, but He truely loves and cares for you and I will pray for you.

Answer 4

No, no you don't.

Just wait, after you overcome it, you will be so glad you didn't give in.

It's a weak way out, do you want to be weak and give in, or are you a strong person, who can overcome struggles in life?

Answer 5

My son killed himself six months ago.  

Do you know what it was like to look at him and have to identify him after he shot himself at in the head.  Do you know what a 9 year old child sounds like when they scream like a wounded animal after finding out their daddy was dead.  Ever hear a soldier sob his heart out when he found out his brother was dead.  How about a 15 year old boy that tried to fight a gun away from his dad.  Another daughter who could only say, how did we let daddy down, why did he want to go.

I am the mom, you have a mom...you know that she will blame herself the rest of her life, that the pain never stops, you never stop thinking about it.  Every holiday, every anniversary, every celebration, you cannot be happy because there is an empty spot that never goes away.

He had a rough life too, he had back surgery at 35 that was botched and was in unrelenting pain.  His wife left him for another woman and was a drug addict, so he had to be the full time parent.  He had run out of money for any more treatments or to take care of his family.  He had no hope of ever being able to earn a living to care for them.

Suicide is not a second chance, it's forever.  And the pain you are feeling, you just pass it on to the people who love you and they stick around...because after someone has killed themselves in your family, you know you can never do that to someone else.

I hope you will think again.

Answer 6

Dont commit just cause you are through bad times think about people in Africa that are going through worse. Do you think they all commit suicide because they are going through trouble.... No.

Answer 7

You don't give us much to go on here.  Why is your life so miserable?  What is your definition of happiness?  Success?  You have parents alive (i don't) you have a wife (many don't have anyone who loves them) Maybe your searching for happiness in all wrong places.  Be grateful for what you have and stop dwelling on what you don't.  Are you a man of faith?.............to many unanswered questions here.  Give more and expect less.  That always makes me happier.

Answer 8

im srry to here that but i also think about taking my kife so manny times but you can allways talk to me about it dont take your life plese things will get better

Answer 9

I don't believe suicide is the answer. I think that you should talk to your wife, or one of your parents and tell them what your feeling. Or go to your doctor.

Life can be a total *****, but you just gotta look the world in the face and laugh at it and keep your chin up.

Answer 10

I feel you pain...I am so fed up also..I have tried the medication and the talking...I really think my family would be better off with out me....

Answer 11

3 Things brother? First "I want to commit suicide?" is a statement not a question. The other two things are; first, Life is what you make it and it can always be changed for the better, if you have faith and strive to see things change. Lastly and most important, I heard a story just moments ago about a study where they put a rat in a bucket of water and put it into a dark room to see how long it would try to stay alive. It only fought for 3 minutes. They put a second rat in the same bucket and shined light onto the bucket and the second rat fought for 36 hours. 700 times longer? Hope, that ray of light gave that rat hope that there was salvation ahead. Well I'm here to tell you first hand that there is a ray of hope and there is salvation if you continue to fight. I am here to bear witness that god does exist and he does love you and does not want to see you have to spend a million billion years in h**l! If this h**l exists then so does heaven. Also now that I think of it you have a responsibility to your children, if you commit suicide your children are more likely to have suicidal tendencies.  

Answer 12

well if i were you i woudnt commit sucicde cause it woudnt take as long if you commit sucide waiting millions and milllions of year...might as well just wait till you die which will prob be in like 50 or 60 years then you go to heaven where you be happy forever

Answer 13

id say try antidepressants before you kill yourself. it could be a major key to keep going.

i always figured, if i was serious about suicide, id at least try world of warcraft once. that game will steal your life, but god didn't say not to play it, so i think it's a loop hole in the divine plan.  

Answer 14

Wanting to die because you reject life as a whole is one thing, but wanting to die so you can "start anew" is well...not such a good idea.

Believe it or not, you do actually have the power to be reborn- to become some one who is successful and happy.

Because you've said you want to live again, I don't think that you've given up on life completely. I think you still believe that there is some to be happy. You might not think that is possible for you, but you just have to work hard to make your situation work for you.

Life is a lot of hard work. For encouragement, try counting the positives in your life. You have a wife and parents...and you live in a location where you can have access to the internet...those are some positives. :)

Answer 15

One day we'll all die, so don't be so curious in advance  about something that is "inevitable" ment to be... later u'll know.

Live ur life, you need strength to live not to commit suicide.

Answer 16

Since when did anyone prove that you are reborn? Scientifically, you wouldn't be.

I think if you suicide that's just a waste of money, time, and care. If you have a wife, and you know that she and your parents will suffer must mean they love you. It's very, very selfish to suicide just because you think it's the best for you, but not for others. If you suicide, you can cause someone to be broken for a long while, or maybe the rest of their lives. People don't always succeed in their dreams. You can always still start again! Besides, there are so many people out there with real miserable lives. At least you managed to access internet. I always feel very, very bad for those people who are missing their limbs and sitting on the street. They haven't killed themselves yet and I've seen them for ages.  

Answer 17

Never ever commit suicide. My son killed himself 6 months ago and my husband, son and daughter have suffered since then. I do not believe that our lives will ever be the same. We are forever wounded and my son was so loved. I know if he knew the devastation he would bring to us, he would not have done it. Get help. Share your pain with those who can help you and never ever do what you are contemplating. You will bring devastation and heartache to your loved ones that they will never overcome. Get help, go to a counselor and never think of suicide again.