I want to die ... the world is so cruel ?

Question

a guy just beat me up ... and i didn't do anything ... i feel guilty for not retaliating.. i feel ashamed of myself

Answer 1

You must not have met the love of your life just yet. Once I met mine, I finally felt like this cruel life was worth living. It's such a wonderful feeling to be in love and to be loved that I'm glad that I'm still alive despite the hardships I've been through.

Answer 2

Call the cops on his ***. You did nothing wrong.

Answer 3

yahoo is their with u dear don't get assame...! u kick on his *** and say i don't know anything regarding that incident..!

Answer 4

The brave die only once.

Answer 5

talk to this to someone. the world is harsh , you need to call up a friend, adult, and talk it through

please, thats not right

Answer 6

no, life does not end with such things, i have also had so many things in my life where more than 10 times i think i shd die the very moment, but no

Life is more than that, one day you will be proud of yourself

Answer 7

don't be alone, stay with someone if you have to and make sure you go and sleep it off. things should feel a little bit better.

Answer 8

Your family and friends are great resources to turn to. My sister just recently went through something similar and she turned to us. Don't be so concerned with retaliation because the universe has an interesting way of righting all the wrongs (maybe not always how you would want it). Any man that has to beat up a woman or even shove a woman is obviously too cowardly to cope with their own shortcomings. Just hang in there and know you are worth more than you think. No matter what the situation was, you don't deserve to be treated like that. Hopefully you have second thoughts about your life and decide you have much more to live for. You should talk to somebody though to make yourself feel right again. Hang in there.  

Answer 9

Be proud of the fact that you didn't do anything...

He wants you to do something and he wants you to feel like ****...why are you letting him get what he wants by feeling like this?

There is no shame in not lowering yourself to the level of a violent, aggressive moron.  

Report his *** because it's illegal and seek some counselling for your depressive feelings...

Answer 10

If you did not do anything(no fault of yours), then you should not have tolerated it. Always remember you have to fight for yourself.

Don't feel guilty. Everyone learns from mistakes. Forget this, cheer up and always be there for yourself....defend yourself if such a situation comes up again.

'Looking' powerful is more important than actually being so.

Answer 11

it is agents the law to fight its called "Physical Aggressions" you did

the right thing

next time stay hit and call the police and they will arrest him and put him in a juvenile home and see who will cry? it wont be you

todays society says that it is alright to fight back but it is not

those people who are bullies are the real losers  there the one's that lose in the end

thy  say that the good guy all ways wins last but listen to those words it says that thy win

and what about the bad guys who wins first?

well after he wins first he has no friends because he was bad

so don't kill your self over this

I hope this helps

you can all way write for more advice

from your friend

Toxicink.

Answer 12

You didn't retaliate because that's not you. You don't hurt people like that guy hurt you. You are above such behavior, and for that you should be proud - not ashamed. And the fact of the matter is being angry at yourself is the worst thing you can do right now. Yes, the guy beat you up, but the real emotional pain is coming from you BEATING YOURSELF UP. So, although many will advise you to seek counseling, you have the power to counsel yourself. Just stop judging your actions - or inactions. I know you must be thinking, "Well, the least I could've done is defend myself." But perhaps you were unable to because your mind was already telling you that you weren't good enough. But you can be, simply by realizing that you already are. Claim back your power, but not through violence or retaliation, but by making it a point not to criticize yourself.

The world can seem cruel, but you mustn't judge the guy who was violent towards you, just like you mustn't judge yourself. The truth is, you have no idea what experiences he's been through to make him into the person he is today. And you might not believe me when I say this, but you'd probably make the same choices he has if you had his life. So, even if it seems like a tall order, try to forgive him. This is the best way to reclaim your power. If you showed the guy who beat you up only kindness from now on, who do you think would have the upper hand? You, of course! And the bully would know it it too.

You are a powerful person, and this has only been a minor setback. But that doesn't mean that you cannot become more than you ever dreamed as a result of this setback. YOU ARE POWERFUL. You're the "BEST OF THE BEST," remember? ;)

Answer 13

Call 1-800-525-LOVE http://www.klove.com 24-7 for some good counsel, tell your story.

Give a read to "The Reincarnation of Edgar Cayce?", Free and Wilcock,

"The Path of the Higher Self," Mark Prophet, and

"Testimony of Light," Helen Greaves.

Answer 14

Please first of All try to get those suicidal thoughts off your head.

Second of all, Yes the world is a very Cold Cruel World, but Killing yourself is NOT the ANSWER.

Third you need counselling, call your Local Crisis Hotline.

It is Usually free, because the Crisis Hotline is usually part of a City or Town's Emergency Services.

So call your Local Crisis Hotline & get Counselling immediately ASAP.

& Please DON'T KILL Yourself.

Murdering yourself is NOT & Never Will be the answer.

Answer 15

same happend to me also but from that i feel awkward i'm no tprotect my self so i learned kung -fu simple and powerful.

Answer 16

Come on. Life's not that bad.

Find other ways to retaliate him - if you can. Embarrass him in front of people. Use psychology instead of anatomy. That should do a lot more damage than physical damage and should soothe your soul a lot more than retaliating physically.

Answer 17

talk to some one.never feel guilty for not retaliating,u will have your reward for patience.talk to a good friend.pray,talk to god thats so simple yea,he controls the universe.sometimes life is unfair,but do'nt lose hope.the sun will shine someday.i know its difficult.u need strength to bear all this and come out beautiful.my prayers and wishes that u have a great life ahead

Answer 18

Dyeing is not a solution for any problem, think about your loved and dependents what will happening to them after you. Kick him back who beaten you, take him to police.

This is very trivial incident in your life, take it easy

Somebody beating you for no fault else decide now onwards you are not going to tolerate this. All we are born winner take this with challenge.

Life is beautiful, enjoy it.

Answer 19

just think...................about ur family.........

and live for them.

Answer 20

It may have been a good thing that you didn't retaliate...bc the guy could have really ened up hurting u... but don't feel bad about it ppl are just ignorant and out 2 prove something, whoever did that 2 u will get what's coming 2 them 100 times worse.

I agree with what the other person said about talking to someone, 2 comfort u and help you cope with the situation.

Answer 21

Please read the books of noble persons. Most of the noble persons were tortured by others but they never took any revenge. Jesus prayed to the Father of heaven; bagging forgiveness for those who had crucified him. You know that he is still alive in the millions heart. Similarly, M.K.Gandhi is worshipped by all most all but how many bothers to know about his killer. Be inspired from the life of noble persons. Read the books of autobiography of noble persons, available from any library. I am sure you'll learn the value of precious human life. Don't be the bad guy.

Answer 22

It is your attitude towards the world. World is not cruel, it is beautiful and evergreen. It is the human being who is cruel.

Answer 23

Dont be so depressed. Have courage and take the bold step of hiting him back.

Answer 24

hey man, just relax.think about it again. Please talk to ur friends/family. dont feel ashmed of urself. If u have not done anything then why are u feeling bad or ashamed?

If u still dont feel relieved talk to a Councilor.

Answer 25

if i was you i would take all your anger and aggression and sadness and use it against him.  seize the moment and beat him up.  win or lose you have nothing to lose.  if he beats you up again so what.  but if you beat him up or even make a dent into his ego he will be scared for life.  the world is full of a******s.  however once you defend yourself you will build confidence and the a******s are easier to deal with and so is the world.  fighting is not always the answer but when it comes to bullies and jerks like this guy its the only solution.  when i was younger a guy called me fat just about everyday.  then one day he tried to beat me up for "being fat".  i told him listen i have to warn you.  you know how they say what does not kill you makes you stronger?, well alot of things haven't killed me.  he got a shocked look on his face and i broke his nose and rib.  ever since i have had the confidence to do anything.  

Answer 26

go and beat him up  

Answer 27

Chalk it up to a learning experience.  Use it to get satisfaction next time.