I want to do more with her but i dont want to loose her?

Question

Iv'e been with my girlfriend for nearly a year now and i kind of want to start doing more things, she told me that she doesnt and i would never force her but what could i say to her to try and get her to change her mind? i realy love her and dont want to upset her so nothing nasty!

Answer 1

Ah this is difficult. But in all honesty, if she doesn't want to then she doesn't want to. Maybe you could just start off doing small things, if you know what i mean. If you truly do care about her then wait a bit longer. Talk about it to her also, it would be good for both of you. Whatever you do try not to make sure she feels pressured - so make sure you word your thoughts properly!

Remember, to start something like this, everything needs to be considered, the place, what your doing, your relationship (good trust!) and contraception - if you go that far.

Good luck, i understand it would be hard, especially after a year.

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