I want to get Married too ?

Question

Hi ,

I'm 16 this coming sep and my boyfriend is going 25 this coming oct .. When 2006 , he promise to me marry me at 2008 . And when 2008 reach , he told me that if possible he wanted to change the date to 2010 .. I feel very down when he told me that . I'm staying with him since 2007 new year . I feel more and more unsafe as he keep telling me to wait . What should i do ? Confuse

Answer 1

you have more life ahead of you than your loser guy. He is stalling because probably he is taking his chance that he can still find someone not as young and childish as you are.

don't get yourself pregnant.

DON'T WAIT FOR HIM. GO HOME TO YOUR PARENTS.

Answer 2

You are too young.

Answer 3

ur only 16 a teenager, and he is 25 a mature man and there is 9 years gap between ur age so of course he has more experience in relationship than u do, and i think he is trying to control and use u as a teenager, or he just wanna have fun with a kid and get rid of u wen he meet his soul mate coz f he was serious about the marriage he would not break his promise to u

so wat u should do is to live ur life normally as a teenager and leave that old guy, ur still young and there r alot of Young guys waiting for u out there so just enjoy and let that marriage thing com wen u r more mature

best of lucks

Answer 4

You are only 16. Don't rush into it. If you don't trust him or doubt that he is going to keep his word, don't waste your time, dump him. Once you are married, you are married. I hate it when people use "well we can get divorced later if it doesn't work out" as an excuse to get married young. Its not fair to those of us who respect our wedding vows.

Plus, where do you live that you can get married at 16 anyway?

Answer 5

Use protection if you are planning to wait.  I think that you are too young to get married.  If I were you, i would wait until I was in my 20's!

Answer 6

So, he is stalling. Where are your parents?