I want to get pregnant!!!!!?

Question

Ok so me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year we are very much in love but we fight alot but its most likely me being insecure. i have a daughter thats 5 months from my ex. but my ex isnt around and my current boyfriend is kinda like her dad.. even tho he dont wanna admit it. we talked about getting married and having kids. he just dont want it now. he dont want kids for along time.. and dont wanna get married for along time. I WANT ANOTHER BABY NOW! and ive even considered pulling a uhoh.. but im really not that kind of girl. and i dont want him to run out on me like my ex.. but i know he wouldnt because he takes care of my daughter that isnt even his.. what should i do?

Answer 1

The answer to this question is easy.

1.  Do not have children with someone who isnt ready themselves, especially when you know for sure that they arent.

And/Or

2.  Move on and find someone who IS ready!

Answer 2

you should figure it out together

Answer 3

Dont think its a good idea. Give your daughter some more time alone with her mum before jumping into another child.

Answer 4

well atleast be thankful woman!

he is taking care of the child you have right now!

and you wanna give him morw work on that!

give more time, besides the kid is only 5 months hon... if she goes to school, then the other child will complain bc BOTH OF THEM will be in the same grade if are born only a few months aprat, it gets annoying with that whole prob.. kids don't wanna have to deal with it, trust me..

when he ready, he ready.

give some time, and think about your d**n boy and child!

Answer 5

You should respect what he wants!

Answer 6

STOP AND WAIT. I was with my boyfriend for 3 years, and he to was a father fig, to my daughter, when I got preg, with our child it was to much and he left, and everything went down hill. Dont do it to yourself, more so not your Baby

Answer 7

suck it up and wait it out! be considerate of his wishes, you could have a real family one day and do everything right. get engaged, get married, THEN have all the babies you want.. it will feel so much better i promise.

Answer 8

focus on your daughter,

and respect your boyfriends wishes.

Answer 9

Uhm, marriage FIRST, then kids honey!

Why are you even THINKING about getting knocked up by a guy you've only been with for a year and doesn't want to get married or have kids right now?

If you want a baby RIGHT NOW then there's plenty of adoptable children out there waiting for adopted parents to take them home and love them.

But please, please don't be so selfish as to force a life-altering dilemma on this guy.

Think about how unfair this situation would be to your boyfriend AND the new baby.

Answer 10

stop having kids.

why would you want to have a baby with someone who didnt want them? thats bad news! esp if hes just your boyfriend because he can just walk out anytime he wants.

dont be fooled and say "but i know he wouldnt because he takes care of my daughter that isnt even his"

he takes care of her because he doesnt have legal responsibility. but the second that 30-40% of his income has to LEGALLY go to you and the baby, then things change pretty quickly.

at least wait and get married FOR YOUR KID. if hes a good guy, he will stick around. a year is NOT that long.

and pulling an "uhoh" will betray his trust and make things rocky for the two of you

Answer 11

w8 till ur boyfriend is ready, he will want a kid with u someday :) u just gotta be patient