I want to get pregnant while on birthcontrol?

Question

I am on the yasmin birthcontrol and i want to get pregnant. Now before u ask me yes my boyfriend and I have discussed this and we both want a baby. My preiods are VERY irregular, i have talked to the doctor about this and about me wanting to get pregnant and he doesnt say anything about how i can do that. He kinda doesnt have any concern about me having a baby because he believes i am too young. He just keeps telling me my only option is to stay on the birthcontrol. I have been tested and i am abe to have children and there is nothing stopping me but i cant get off the bc.

My periods go for 2-3 weeks then i dont get it for 2-3 months. Its very annoying and i hate it, thats why i am on the pill and cannot get off of it. i have spoken to my obgyn and she says i should stay on the pill too. But we really want to have a baby, i think i was put on this earth to be a mom but everytime i talk to my doctors my dream is diminishing.

Can someone please give me some advice besides going to my doctor because thats obviously not working

I thank you so much in avance

Ali

Answer 1

Please.  Do not procreate.

Answer 2

how old are you

Answer 3

You could try adopting a puppy first

Answer 4

Although you don't mention your age, probably intentionally, I get the idea that you're too young.  

You may feel like you were put on this earth to have a child but you can wait until you're older to have one.  Think about it, a baby is not a puppy, you are a mom every minute of every day for the rest of your life.  Babies are extremely expensive.  Please think about this logically...are you really, I mean REALLY, able to pay to raise this baby?

You need to step back and take a long, long look at this.  For you to be a good parent you must have the maturity to be able to handle being a parent...the good and the bad.  Being a mother sounds very romantic but it's not.  It's a reality that you must be prepared for.

If you are young, if your doctor recommends you stay on birth control then do it until you are truly ready for this commitment.

EDIT:  I went through some of your previous questions.  I'm very concerned about why you want to have a baby.  You've been stressed about being pregnant, you don't know if your boyfriend cares for you and you're an admitted huffer.  This behavior does not sound like you need to be a mother.  

You need to get into counseling.  Please seek help before you create more problems for yourself by having a baby.

Answer 5

Ali,

Come on.  You just said a few days ago you hadn't seen your boyfriend in 3 months.  He was always "too busy" for you.  You also wanted to cheat on him.  And he wanted a threesome with you.

I think you need to re-think this whole baby idea.

Answer 6

From your post last week you said you just turned 19 which is still really young, but i do know people who have had children at 18 (like my sister) and have turned out to be fantastic parents. The thing that concerned me most was in last weeks post you said you have only been together for 11 months and that you have not seen him in 3 months, to me that is not a situation to bring a child up in. I'm 27 and have been with my partner now for 10 yrs, we were 14 and 16 when we met and we only started to have children 3 yrs ago and now have two,  I'll tell you children can put a strain on a relationship especially if it's not strong before you have children. My advice would be not to consider it until you two have been together for a reasonable amount of time and you know it's going to last, it's not fair on the child to be brought up in a not so stable environment. My sister that i mentioned that was 18 when she had her baby? well she ended up a single parent 7 months after he was born and it was hard on her, she is now 23yrs and he is 5. No matter what anyone tells you on here you know the right answer to your question and at the end of the day will do what ever you want too, but just really think about it.

I'm not meaning to sound rude or anything just i know first hand how much hard work it is to be a parent and i always thought it would be easy. I was 23 when i had my daughter and some times i think i was still really young.

Good luck with what ever you decide and if do decide to please make sure you have a  good support network of people to help.

Answer 7

Your best bet is to talk to a fertility specialist.

Its next to impossible to get pregnant on the pill..  its 99.9% effective..  it stops ovulation and/or implantation (depending on the hormone)!  The "periods" you have on the pill are not even actual periods.. its breakthru bleeding from the lapse in hormones!

If you're not ovulating properly off the pill.. you're not ovulating properly on the pill either!  I dont know how you can say there's "nothing stopping you" from having kids, when there obviously is a problem..  your menstrual cycle is not normal.

Answer 8

stop taking the pill and try  

Answer 9

When you have 2 medical professionals advising you not to get pregnant, you probably shouldn't get pregnant.

From reading your other questions, you are certainly not ready to be having a baby.

You and your boyfriend do not have what it takes to stay together for a child. You sound way too young.

Quit watching "the secret life of the american teenager."

Sweetie, if you just had serious issues a month ago, it's going to happen again.

You aren't married. You aren't committed to eachother.

A child is a LIFELONG committment, to the child, and eachother. Why enter the lifelong committment of a child without the marriage half? You owe it to your baby to be committed to him AND your boyfriend.

You are 19. You have your entire life to have babies. You talk about the dream "diminishing." You have at least 20 more fertile years ahead of you.

Go to college. Get an education, so god forbid you and your boyfriend break up, you have a way to support yourself.

THEN think about babies.

Answer 10

Just go off the pill. You don' HAVE to be on it.  You sound way to young and I don't think its a good decision myself.

In a previous question, a month ago, your boyfriend hadn't seen you in three weeks and you were trying to keep yourself from kissing someone else. You need to mature. Please don't have a child.

Answer 11

A couple of options:

1.  Have s*x all the time, since your ovulation is unpredictable.  Try that for several months.  It can be a lot of fun.

2.  See if your doctor will prescribe clomid to make you ovulate, so you can schedule s*x at the right time.

Don't be in a rush though.  If you're young and you guys aren't married, I would discuss your other long term relationship and plans first, then worry about a baby.

Answer 12

Stop taking the birth control if you want to get pregnant. Come on, that's a no brainer. I don't get why you can't get off of it. Just tell your doctor you don't want to take it anymore or stop filling the presciption. Its not tough. However, being that your doctor insists that you take it makes me wonder just how old you are.

Edit: after reading some of your privious question, are you doing this to try to keep your boyfriend? Having a baby would be a bad idea right now.