I want to go on the pill but....?

Question

i dont no how to tell my mum

i dont want to do it without her permission it just would feel wrong

ive talked to my boyfriend about it..he sayd he will wait till i work it out..

coz about a year ago my mum told me i dont want to have to worry about any of that for a few years now

and i have no idea how she will react.. if i tell her and she says no im worried she wont trust me around my bf's house anymore..

help please!

oh im 15 btw

Answer 1

why don`t you do a little research and find out a different protection, because there are so many ! and search for what suits you better.

I think you are too young to use the pill, the pill is not really so miraculous as you might think...  

Answer 2

DONT do it without her consent. It would kill her to know you've done it secretly. If I was in your position, i'd tell her I want to talk to her seriously. But make her promise that nothing will change if she says no. Then just be honest with her.. or you will get caught out. Plus, you wont have that paranoid feeling of her finding out if you talk to her. Just be open with her.

Good luck :)

Answer 3

As a mom I advise you to wait.  Make sure you are having s*x for the right reasons.  It is good that you want to talk to your mom about it, and you really should before you make a final decision.  You are still very young and you have your whole life ahead of you, please think about why you want to have s*x.  It is more than just a physical thing; there are a lot of emotions involved and I am sure that you don't want to get hurt.  Being an older woman in her 40's I can tell you one of the biggest regrets I have is that I was so young (I was your age) when I became sexually active.  I know you are going to do what you want to, but please make sure you have thought it through.  Also make sure if you do decide to have s*x that along with the pill you also use condoms.  You can never be too careful.  Just a little hint, if your boyfriend refuses to use condoms it shows that he really doesn't care that much for you.

Answer 4

but whats your reason for wanting to go on it then? because if its to have s*x then of course she's not goin to trust you

Answer 5

I'm pretty sure you'll have to have parental consent to get a prescription for birth control pills since you're under 18. I could be wrong, but I'm pretty sure that's the case.

In my personal opinion, I think you should give it a little more time before you decide to become sexually active, but of course that's entirely your choice. 15 is a bit young though. My first time was when I was 16, and afterwards I realized I was not ready for it at all! Like other answerers have mentioned, s*x is not only physical, but emotional too. I wasn't ready for it emotionally; I was still just a kid! Plus you have to worry about pregnancy and STDs even if you are using birth control and condoms. At 16, I realized I just wasn't ready for all that c**p. After that, I waited until I was 19 to become sexually active, and I'm glad I waited. Accidents can happen, and the older you are the better suited you'll be to deal with the consequences of s*x.

If you still decide you wanna do it now, then please, discuss the whole thing with your mom, get on the pill, and insist your boyfriend wears a condom at all times (if he really respects you, then he will). Believe me, you don't wanna ruin your life at such a young age.

Answer 6

well thats a tuffy

go to your mom and tell her that you are having really heavy periods and since birth control is to help with the periods she should get you some

or you can tell your mum that you no all bout s*x and that you dont want to do it but since you are getting older then ..just in case!

she should understand

welll best of luck to ya