I want to have a foster parent. i want to be loved by a mother. will someone help me feel that kind of love?

Question

i want to have a foster parent. i want to be loved by a mother. will someone help me feel that kind of love?

Answer 1

Honey, I understand how you feel. You are desperate, even dying, for a love you were created to know. I'm sorry that life's situations didn't allow that to happen for you, but foster care isn't always the answer. A boyfriend or girlfriend isn't the solution, either. In situations like these, self-love is key. Boost your self-esteem by speaking nice things to yourself, treating yourself well. Think good things about yourselves and others. Love and do things for other people, and don't do it based on their reactions (or lack,t hereof) to you. Complete a journal by Max Lucado. Hope that helps. Email me: [e-mail] if you ever need anyone to talk to. Hugs, Debbie

Answer 2

It may happen for you, and I hope/pray that it does. No one deserves that pain. But if it doesn't happen, and it may not, you have to learn to love yourself, and to let yourself both feel other kinds of love and to *accept* other kinds of love as well. I'm not being mean, kiddo, just realistic. You can' let not feeling a mother's love ruin your life. It's YOUR life. You control it.

If you have a mother whom you don't feel loves you, then you need to try to forgive her, as hard and as impossible as that may seem.

Answer 3

how old r u?/....and it's not your fault..really. I'd be your mom, but i'm in Canada..and u probably r not....~...

Answer 4

First, how old are you? Second, don't you have a mom? Third, if you have a mom why do you feel that she does not love you? If you were a kid and I knew who you were I would have definately loved you like a mother. But If you really have no mother's love then I wish there were a way I could help you but unfortunately I can't. Try finding love somewhere else like a girlfriend, or wife if you are a grown man. Find love from another family member. If you live alone then take the girlfriend or wife option.