I want to have s*x with my fiance on a continual basis but I'm scared she will get pregnant

Question

my fiance and I will be getting married in 2009 and I need some advice. I am constantly scared in having s*x with her on a consistent basis because I don't want to get her pregnant now. I hate having to use a condom and she does not like to use birth control because she tells me it causes issues with her own body. any advice?

Answer 1

Just don't have s*x with her on the week before her period. That's the only week a girl can get pregnant, unless she has an ectopic pregnancy, which is extremely unlikely.

Answer 2

make sure those 2 areas don't touch each other or get near each other while your having s*x.

Answer 3

Yes, abstain. You take a chance every single time you have s*x with her. So just wait.

Answer 4

Abstain from sexual intercourse, there are other things you can do to please each other sexually and satisfy each other needs and desires. Do some research and you will find plenty of ways. She should have the options of an implant or something other than the pill to see to it on her end that pregnancy is avoided, don't count on a condom alone.

Answer 5

well yes if she says it messes with ehr then most likely it really does nd there are lots of different types now tell her to try  the nuvo ring ... when u do have s*x use a condom but before u peak pull out even when u have a condom on just to be sure

Answer 6

I think that if you are doing your part to be safe, and she's not willing to do hers, she's being unfair. Maybe she doesn't like the idea of having to take a pill, or wear a patch, or get a shot, but there are other things she could do that aren't chemical. I know how you feel about being scared, but it's all part of the risk. If the two of you aren't willing to agree on something safe, you shouldn't be having s*x.

Answer 7

Just tuff it out with a condom until you get married.

Answer 8

just use a condom. it might not feel as good but at least you wont have to stress like this.

Answer 9

Your going to get married. Your going to be together for ever. Will it be the end of the world if you get her pregnant.

Or take it in turns to use contraception.

Answer 10

use a condom you would hate having to pay for raising a child you did not want to conceive more than using a condom sometime you have to make sacrifices to get what you want

Answer 11

have you ever let her try a diaphragm?? the best way to prevent pregnancy is condom, diaphragm and spermicide ... diaphragm and spermicide together works best with a condom

Answer 12

just go for it if you are getting married. and dont push her to use birth control, because it sucks  

Answer 13

You shouldn't do it. Do it when you guys are married. This way she doesn't have to do birth control.

Answer 14

There seems to be only one solution: Stop having s*x.

EDIT: Also, while condoms aren't foolproof 100% of the time, neither is ANY other kind of bith control.

Answer 15

Have you looked at all forms of birth control?

Spermicides?

Barrier methods?

And after that, there is anal & oral s*x.  

Answer 16

She can get the Coil put in, or you will have to continue using condoms.

Answer 17

Just use a condom, for goodness sake.

What on earth do you mean, you hate using a condom? They're super thin. If you think it detracts from the pleasure of s*x, you're kidding yourself and your sexual partner. If you're using them properly, you should have no problems.