I want to have the safest s*x possible, so is it too much to ask if..?

Question

I want to have the safest s*x possible without taking birth control pills, so is it a little too much to ask if i ask my boyfriend to wear a condom and pull out?

Answer 1

DO NOT DO NOT

DO NOT

But since you will any way

USE A  CONDOM....

Many a CHILD BORN due to PULL OUT

R U afraid of the chemicals in BC pills??

Then Don't F**K

Answer 2

before you and him begin to have s*x, both of you go and be tested first.

Answer 3

There's not much need to pull out if you guys are using the condom correctly, pull out isn't very effective.

If something goes wrong with the condom, pulling out probably won't make much difference because chances are his ejaculate would still land on your vaginal area thus making pregnancy a possibility. Also I don't think it would be much fun!

But yeah you can ask him and get his views. I know some guys use condoms and pull out because they've said so on the site.

Why don't you want to take birth control pills, can't you take them? Have you investigated other types of hormonal birth control? Or you could use a diaphragm as well as a condom if you want.

Harriet

Answer 4

Um, I guess not. He probably won't like it though and it kind of makes for awkward s*x cause his mind'll be on making sure to pull out at the right time rather than how good you feel. You do know that the safest s*x is no s*x. Not my favorite though haha. If you're so worried about getting pregnant, maybe you shouldn't be having s*x?...

Answer 5

Well, you can ask, but in the heat of the moment - well, try it and see.

Answer 6

Get nuvaring. but if you don't want to it is ok to tell him to pull out even though he is wearing a condom, it is ur P!

Answer 7

no

Answer 8

the safest s*x is to only have s*x with one person who will only have s*x with you ... EVER

otherwise ask him to wear a condom and tell him you want to have anal s*x all night