I want to help my sister in law?

Question

My sister in law is into drugs and now stripping. Everyone in the family has talked to her over and over and its not helping. We are so worried about her. She is pushing us away more and more. What can I do to help her?

Answer 1

Nothing. She is an adult. She needs to make her own decisions, whether you like it or not. Let her fall on her ***.

Answer 2

There isn't much this is what she into unfortunately wait til she reaches a low that she hasn't had before wen she needs help and support that's when u really talk to her and understand why shes doing the things shes doing and what caused it, trust me pushing her to go get help and yelling at her to stop will only make things worse.

Answer 3

Nothing right now.  If she doesn't want to change she wont right now.  Just let her know you are there if she ever needs to talk and you wont judge.  When she is ready she will find you.  But hounding her to quit drugs and dancing will only push her way more.  Just lay low.  It hurts and is hard to watch.  If you truly care for her just let her know you aren't judging and are there if she needs a shoulder.

  Best Wishes and Take Care

Answer 4

I guess you can just be there when she falls, and she will.