I want to jump off the side of a building.?

Question

My dad might be cheating on my mom.

And everything is falling apart.

I just want to leave,

the sucky part is, I cant just drive away.

Because I can't drive at all o_o

Answer 1

my mom cheated on  my dad with several men and i was  the one that found out by reading the emails. my mom kicked me( 13) my brother(8) and my dad and the dog out. they are officially divorce now.  i failed the 8th grade. i had my appendix taken out. i have an audition coming up that could affect my entire future, my dad had a stoke , and several heart attacks in the past year and he had surgery in his neck while i was in the hospital,and if a blood clot came loose in the surgery he would have had a stoke and possibly died during the surgery. ive never had a boyfriend and the one guy that i had a chance with,my cousin started flirting with(after i told her i liked him) and now they are dating.

that all happened in 3 months.  do you still want to jump off a building?

Answer 2

remember it is not you...thier problems not yours

talk to a friend or a friends mom

Answer 3

dont do anything rash. just calm down and think it through. every thing will be fine. i went through the same thing with my dad, he was always with this lady. it worked out though and now we are a happy family again. hope i helped

Answer 4

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Answer 5

Hey sweetie.

Please don't leave the world!

There is a bunch of people that love you sooo much and would hate to see you go!

I bet your father really isn't cheating on your mom, talk to your mom.

Please don't jump off the side of a building, everyone was put on this world for a reason, and all world needs you, we need you.

It may seem like things suck and they couldn't get any worse, but if you hold on and keep your pretty head up trust me things will get better.

I have been there, life can suck sooo bad and you just want to end it all , but trust me things will get better, and trust me they do.

I sorry about everything that is going on in your life, and I will keep you in my prays and hope you are safe!

Just talk to a friend, or your mom, they love you and will be glad to listen and remember i'm here!

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Answer 6

It just doesn't work out for some people.

Answer 7

its ok i went threw the same thing your goin through it was hard but i had to grow up an realize these things happen untill 1 day i told my mom what was going on with my dad i sed to myself id rather them get a devorce then to kno my dad is cheating an my mom doesnt kno but the good thing is it brought me an my mom closer together =)

Answer 8

too bad 4 u

Answer 9

there's two ways to look at the possibility of leaving and this is assuming your mom already knows about your dad.

1. you would just stress them out more and your mom would start to blame your dad for upsetting you so much that he drove you away

2. they would freak out and come together to find you and then afterward maybe they'd be reminded of all the reasons why you should stay together as a family.

as for jumping off the side of a building... that's a bit selfish, don't you think? aside from probably breaking your parents hearts you'd leave the world peacefully but leave all your friends with the pain of your death. and then a little down the line you'd become just another statistic. there's much more effective ways of letting your parents know that you're upset. try those first.

Answer 10

I know how you feel.It happened to me before and every thing turned out to be ok. Now I'm not saying it will turn out happily or anything but life will go on as long as you DON'T JUMP OFF THE SIDE OF A BUILDING! Listen to your heart and you will know what to do.Hang in there.I know what it can be like!

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Answer 11

Listen, these things happen. That doesn't make it better. I myself have gone through the horrible-ness of cheating by another. There are ways that a couple can make it through. I recommend a book called "Unfaithful" by Gary and Mona Shriver. If you're dad is willing to be honest and change his ways they could make it through. If they want this to be the end he could at least have the decency to say so instead of going behind her back. I hope the best for your family.

Answer 12

I had the same thoughts one time.  My sister and I followed my Dad and saw him get in the car with another woman.

We were devastated and contemplated telling Mom, but did not want to hurt her.  Finally, we figured she needed to know.

We sat her down and broke the bad news, ends up

My Dad was carpooling.

Moral of the story is to talk to your Mom about your concerns, she probably already knows what is going on.

Answer 13

Things can be so much f*cking worse.

My mom went through two divorces that were worse, in one case he took all our money. Besides, he MIGHT BE.

Just be strong about it, stop complaining. I'm not meaning to be harsh but I wish people would think twice about what others go through before concentrating on one problem when something FINALLY goes wrong in thier life.

Ok I'm done being nice, just shup up.

Answer 14

Look I don't mean to sound mean, but don't be immature. It's hard enough on both your parents as it is, but if you leave, you'll make it worse. In the end things might work out or they might not.

Answer 15

if that's the worst thing that will ever happen to you i will trade lives with you in a heartbeat. i lost both my parents before i was 14 and have lost many other close relatives and family members and had to deal with alot of horrible things.

Answer 16

Go for a walk, or a run if your angry.

play your music loud.

write poetry, a story, or a letter to your mum and/or dad telling them how you are feeling (you dont have to give it to them if you dont want to)

Ring your best mate and spill everything out of your head

call kids help line if your best mate wont listen.

talk to someone you trust at school, like awelfare person or whatever. youd be surprised how much they can help in ways that you wouldnt expect them to.

remember that tomorrow is a new day and although it may not feel like it now, things WILL get better. do the best you can to utilise the people that care about you and can help you in the mean time.



*hug*

soldior on kid.