I want to kill myself, life's not fair?

Question

Well, i feel i have been screwed over by life so many times that am getting sick and tried of living it anymore, i know killing myself is very selfish and it will hurt many people especially my mum who loves me, but i believe that it will be better for me and well other people if i don't live anymore.

I have been having some health problems at first, there is the possibility i have chest cancer which is really scaring me, and so ive been visiting the doctors to check up on that, i also believee ive been having mindproblems asswelll, with mood swings and according to people i have a alter egoaswelll, also i struggle to remember things.

But the thing that i hate most about life, is that love, ive been trying to get it for so long, and now recently a girl i have been going out with for month s has just dumpedbecauseedidn'tt feel she wanted a boyfriend ,crushedd me in two, i would do anything for her and now i have lost her.

i know killing myself is not the proper answer and that its aperm-anteesolutionn to a temporary problem, and yes i also know that i will go to h**l to have my soul ripped apart frointernallyy.

But am getting sick and tired of sayingLife'ss not fair"becausee i know its not fair thats why am going to make that stop happeningn by killing myself.

Answer 1

If you're seriously considering killing yourself, then why does the idea of having cancer scare you? The worst it could do is kill you. You should be more afraid of yourself, since that seems to be the greatest danger you face at the moment.

The truth of the matter is that LIFE IS FAIR. You've been born into it, now, in all fairness, you've got to deal with what happens during it.

So buck up and be happy that sunsets look beautiful and that grass feels good on your feet.  

Answer 2

My life's unfair too, but I'm not going to kill myself. Life's hard enough, you don't need to hate yourself. Be your own best friend.

You are teaching people how to treat you by the way you are treating yourself. If you love yourself, they'll do the same.

It works for me. Instead of saying "fake it until you make it", I say just pretend until you make it. You are an awesome person and you make your own life. If you wait for a wonderful life to happen to you, it won't happen. You gotta make your own kind of wonderful.

Answer 3

Life isn't fair so teach it a lesson and live it.

Something at some point in your life will make your heart sing that you are glad you are alive.  Don't miss it.  I wish you serenity

Answer 4

Life's hard hun. Thats what I learned. All summer I've been wanting to kill myself and have thought about it but then I had a talk with my mom about it and it really helped. Suicide is never the answer. You want to show that your weak? Thats what people who killed themselves showed. They can't handle how hard life is so they decide to kill themselves. Life has its ups and downs and unfortunately for you your in a down state. Just because life sucks now for you doesn't mean it will always be like that. Life isn't fair its true but there's nothing you can do about it. I feel so bad that you might have chest cancer too but you have to fight through it! Show that cancer that your not weak! As for your mind problems if your a teenager its completely normal. I have like those same problems too and I'm 15. Love is very complicated and its a very hard game to win but don't worry. You will find the one sooner or later. Oh and if your not a teenager I suggest getting some help from a psychologist. Don't worry your not crazy or anything like that.

Have a good and prosperous life and remember suicide is never the answer! :)

Answer 5

just fin kill yourself. who cares? you worthless pile!

NOBODY LOVES U... everyone else who answered is an idiot

Answer 6

hey there maybe you are just jumping into conclusions,have you ever talk to her?did you ever  said you love her?did se really confront you

ever saying she does not want you?if she did i feel sorry to you.if did not go straight to her.

Answer 7

You said it, "i know killing myself is not the proper answer" so don't do it! and you're right, life isn't fair but still you have to make the most of it while you have the chance.

Answer 8

Here kid,

Why would you kill your self? you said your self your being selfish. Not only are you being selfish but would be ungrateful for the life you have. Who gave you a right to kill yourself? Do you think you are better than everyone? Because your saying, you have it worse off than most people, but everyone else has to deal with it, and you can take the easy way out. Im not being mean, just telling you, That you should be grateful for life. There are so many babies who never got a chance to live. There are so many kids who never hit the age of 9! So if you dont want to live for yourself, than live for them!

I was recently crushed to. It happens, its a part of life. But people come and go. So do lovers. She obviously wasnt meant to be. So all you can do is spend this 1 month period crying and complaining your life sucks, or get up and do something about it! Go find yourself a nice little girl and take her out to dinner! You have to move on eventually, start now!

When you were given life, you weren't given anything you couldn't handle. Life sucks, just have to make the best of it!

Feel better kid!

Answer 9

it really take a lot of guts to suicide. I want to do it but I cannot since the same reason that you are telling. My parents!

But what I learn from going on is that Life is changing forget about the past see what comes next.

It reminds me of a song "Life" from Haddaway - listen to the song.